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About christina Cicchelli
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Expertise

I can answer the following questions about fetishism:

  • How to talk to your partner about your kinky fantasies
  • How to set up a "play date" for you and your partner so you can act out your fantasies.
  • How to practice your fantasies and fetishes solo.
  • The different organizations, clubs, or resources one want to contact
Crossdressers
  • How to approach your lover about your crossdressing fetish
  • How to play with your lover is s/he is a crossdresser
  • Different ways to can continue to make this fetish work for you
Other kinky specialities:
  • Animal Transformation
  • Foot Fetish
  • Role-Play
  • BDSM
  • Object fetish
"Unique" or "Uncommon" Fetishes:
  • Fantasies that involve supernatural creatures, celebrities, etc
  • Fantasies that may involve body growth, shrinkage, weight gain, etc.
  • Fantasies that include elaborate scenarios, scripted role-play, etc.
  • A combination of one or more fetishes
Edgeplay
  • Bloodplay
  • Watersports
  • Coprophilia/coprophagia
  • Roman Showers
  • Intense, consensual role-play with taboo or controversial themes (Rape-fantasy, animal-play, etc)

I can't answer the following:

In-depth information about medical play or bondage

If you need further guidance or coaching, then please call my phone line:

(646) 250-4999. Call for a free 10 minute phone consultation. I also offer hour-long coaching sessions for the practicing pervert.

Experience

BIO

Christina Cicchelli is a "Sexventurer" of sorts; she's spent over five years as a sex worker and has experience in a myriad of industries, including phone sex and professional domination. As a Mistress, she has worked in several NYC Dungeons and also visited devoted clients on an independent basis. As a phone sex operator, she maintained a large amount of callers who sought her guidance, creativity, and experience in fetish and role-play.

Christina is best known for her career as a porn actress. Under the non de plume, Simone Valentino, she's performed in a handful of films. She received an AVN nomination for “Best Actress” for her role in Afrodite Superstar and also won “Best New Starlet” at the Feminist Porn Awards in 2008 for her role in Audacia Ray's The Bi Apple.

Christina is a columnist for $pread Magazine and writes about all things fetish in own blog, A Fantastic Nightmare. She is also Betty Dodson and Carlin Ross’s resident Fetish Blogger on their sex-positive website (Dodsonandross.com) and coaches individuals and couples who seeking kinky inspiration in the bedroom.

Publications

A Fantastic Nightmare (Personal Blog)

Dodsonandross.com - Sex positive website and home of sex educators and feminists Betty Dodson and Carlin Ross

$pread Magazine - Printed publication for sex workers written and produced by sex workers


Education/Credentials

Graduate: The College of New Rochelle

Masters: English/Communications


Awards and Honors
2007: "Best New Starlet" - Feminist Porn Awards 2008: "Best New Actress" - AVN Awards

Past/Present Clients
Confidential but verifiable references are available

   

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follow up11/5/2009christina Cicchelli
  Q: Christina thank you for the fast response. I had to look up cuckold and that is not what I want. We ...
  A: Hey Brad, Okay, so now it's back to your basic desires. And, so often partners in a relationship ...
underwear fetish11/5/2009christina Cicchelli
  Q: I feel bad about an underwear fetish. What does this say about my personality if anything? How can I ...
  A: i don't think you have a problem at all! Do you find your underwear your fetish to have a very ...
Navel11/4/2009christina Cicchelli
  Q: What is navel fetish and how do you do it. Please give detailed examples if possible.
  A: Umbiliphilia, or navel fetishism, is the attraction to and arousal of navels. Whether through direct ...
previous help11/3/2009christina Cicchelli
  Q: She also wanted to be a little more dominant and use a strapon on me which we agreed on. The advice ...
  A: Wow, I'm sorry about what happened. You need to sit your wife down and give her a straightforward ...
one more11/3/2009christina Cicchelli
  Q: sorry, i asked you a question but i forgot to ask you one more question. i also have a slight ...
  A: Hey there, I might have misunderstood you before when you asked me these questions. So do you want ...
BDSM11/1/2009christina Cicchelli
  Q: OK I am looking for some weapons to use to torture my friends while doing bdsm. Like some people are ...
  A: Hey Vanessa, My first question to you is what type of role play scenario are you and your friend ...
Strange fetish10/21/2009christina Cicchelli
  Q: There's a strange fetish I have, and it involves a scene from an episode of Star Trek; The Next ...
  A: Hey David, So are you attracted to this electromagnetic creature? Or is it sexy to see the object ...
Medical Fantasy Exam10/18/2009PLAY DOCTOR
  Q: I have just finished chatting with a woman who said she has met you and, on several occasions, been ...
  A: From what you have said, I can tell you that it is true. I am very precise and exacting when giving ...
Directory of doctors10/18/2009PLAY DOCTOR
  Q: Is there a resource online which lists a directory of doctors around the country who offer fantasy ...
  A: Being M/M presents a bit more of a challenge and probably the best thing you can do is just search, ...
Fetishism in developing countries.10/17/2009christina Cicchelli
  Q: I was wondering whether or not if it's true that people in developing countries might have sexual ...
  A: Sorry for the long wait, David. Mysophilia is the sexual attraction to mud, dirt, or any surface ...
Possible causes of sexual fetishism.10/12/2009christina Cicchelli
  Q: I'm wondering if you might know what the possible causes of sexual fetishism could be. I've read ...
  A: Hey David, Based upon my experience and what I've learned, there is no concrete cause for sexual ...
Material fetishism?10/10/2009christina Cicchelli
  Q: This is a two-part question, the first question is if having a fetish for leather or rubber, for ...
  A: Happy Columbus Day! I would agree that both leather and rubber can be considered a form of material ...
Question about a possible fetish.10/10/2009christina Cicchelli
  Q: I'm a gay guy and I've known from a very early age that I was different in that regard. While I was ...
  A: Hey David, You know, that is so funny. Just recently I was an admiring a dinner date. He had a ...
What am I?10/9/2009christina Cicchelli
  Q: I guess I need to ask someone for help about myself. I'm a 38 yr old virgin,who has never even ...
  A: You don't have to be sorry at all - I'll be happy to help you! Everyone's sexual identity is very ...
my boyfriends strange fetishes..10/4/2009christina Cicchelli
  Q: hey, i am 16 years old and have been with my boyfriend for about 4 months now, everything is ...
  A: Hey Charlie, Your concerns are natural and, since you watched 2 girls 1 cup (which I've seen as ...
Foot doctor fantasy10/3/2009PLAY DOCTOR
  Q: Is there any sites that pertain to photos or video of females getting podiatric exams including ...
  A: Well - - - I am not planning a set, but in the literally thousands of exam pictures that I have ...
watersports9/27/2009christina Cicchelli
  Q: The thought of water sports drive me crazy!! I want so bad to do it with my wife (meaning her on ...
  A: Hey Dave, Sorry about the delayed response. I actually wrote a small article about water sports ...
BBW9/16/2009christina Cicchelli
  Q: My wife is a bbw and has grown rather fond of sitting on my best friend. He loves it and told us ...
  A: Hey Jason, For this particular business, you can go down several avenues. The simplest way to ...
fetish9/15/2009christina Cicchelli
  Q: I was hoping you could maybe explain what I think is maybe a fetish or just a fantasy. My wife and I ...
  A: Hey B.A. I would suggest Violet Blue's "Fetish Sex: An Erotic Guide for Couples" - it has a ...
fetish9/15/2009christina Cicchelli
  Q: I was hoping you could maybe explain what I think is maybe a fetish or just a fantasy. My wife and I ...
  A: Hey B.A. There is NOTHING wrong with you! Over time, our sexual identities can change, and this ...
Rectal Temperature9/12/2009PLAY DOCTOR
  Q: I'm a 50 year old female, about 5'8" somewhat overweight with a shape and reside in SC. I enjoy ...
  A: PLAY DOCTOR ANSWERS* A PATIENT’S QUESTIONS ABOUT HER INTEREST IN RECTAL TEMPERATURE TAKING ...
BBW9/10/2009christina Cicchelli
  Q: My wife is a bbw and has grown rather fond of sitting on my best friend. He loves it and told us ...
  A: Sorry for the delayed response. This fun activity is called squashing and it is common. Just as you ...
Smoking/Crossdressing/Age8/22/2009christina Cicchelli
  Q: My name is Kenny and I'm a really messed up guy. I'm not a bad guy. I just have a lot of issues, ...
  A: Hey Kenny, If you spoke to your wife about your "unhealthy" fetishes the same way you talked to ...
Various Obessesions?8/19/2009PLAY DOCTOR
  Q: My 6 year old sons' Father and I aren't married, nor do we see each other ofen. However, whenever he ...
  A: OK - the "feet" thing is OK to a certain extent; no matter what it is, when it becomes something ...
fetishsm8/13/2009Jessica Bunny Thomas
  Q: why do males crossdress during play time?
  A: Here in the USA, as well as many countries, women are still sadly depected at submissive. Ads, TV, ...
Medical Supplies7/6/2009PLAY DOCTOR
  Q: To make a long story short, I've had a medical fetish interest for about 10 years, but haven't been ...
  A: e-bay can be a good source as well as a site called medicaltoys.com although they can be expensive. ...
Rectal temp6/9/2009PLAY DOCTOR
  Q: I'm an attractive 44 yo male and have had a fantasy of another male taking my temp rectally for as ...
  A: Actually, trying to live out your fantasy may not be as hard as you think AND you'd be surprised of ...
playing doctor6/9/2009PLAY DOCTOR
  Q: Doctor scenes involving being overtaken, strapped down, forced, being tortured with medical devices ...
  A: Amy: Yes, I can help you to further explore this fantasy. Please respond via e-mail to me at --- ...
Medical roleplay fantasy5/6/2009PLAY DOCTOR
  Q: Please advise if there are sites where I can find a male/female roleplay doctor,with a ...
  A: Best thing to do - especially if you are looking in the United States, is to start out with a search ...
orgasming4/23/2009PLAY DOCTOR
  Q: Is it true that when you go to orgasm you feel like peeing is there anyway to stop this fear??? I'm ...
  A: There is EVERY CHANCE OF GETTING PREGNANT the first time, 100th time, or last time that you have ...
orgasming4/23/2009PLAY DOCTOR
  Q: Is it true that when you go to orgasm you feel like peeing is there anyway to stop this fear??? I'm ...
  A: No way you can control it but, assuming you've had an orgasm before, you'd know. My first concern ...
injections4/22/2009PLAY DOCTOR
  Q: Where in the world can I get a shot (needle syringe) as part of my medical fetish includes getting a ...
  A: Can't tell you where to get the syringe and needles ---- maybe outside of the country and/or ...
injections4/21/2009PLAY DOCTOR
  Q: Where in the world can I get a shot (needle syringe) as part of my medical fetish includes getting a ...
  A: I am not an expert on "injections" EXCEPT to say that they are to be taken very carefully. The ...
masterbation4/16/2009PLAY DOCTOR
  Q: hello I'm a kind girl who is in to cleanliness so can girls masturbate with gloves? if so what kind ...
  A: Actually, masturbating with gloves is a whole 'nother aspect of fetish. But using exam gloves can ...
crazed blog3/28/2009Miss Red
  Q: .. I looked at his facebook and myspace and friendster accounts... and I looked at his notes and his ...
  A: Mary, Do you really even need to ask this question? He is obviously not worth anyone's attention, ...
Agressive BBW3/15/2009Miss Red
  Q: you answered a question for me, but there's a little more to my needs, my wife's a fun loving BBW, ...
  A: Well Robert, its always nice to hear from a man who knows specifically what he is looking for. ...
BBW Fetish.3/12/2009Miss Red
  Q: My question is a bit different, most pple ask about feet, whipping, etc. My question pertains to two ...
  A: Robert, This is definitely normal! Not sure whether you mean menage-a-trois in the classical sense ...
i have sexual feet disires3/11/2009Miss Red
  Q: its has been a huge mystery on how i really started like feet all i do know is ive been likeing them ...
  A: Everyone usually has a preference to a certain part of the body. I'm not sure if you've heard the ...
fetishism3/5/2009Miss Red
  Q: i am female foot fetish. i dont have a gir friend. i am 25 yrs old. i want to ask you does this ...
  A: Hey there Mark, A foot fetish is a common and generally accepted fetish. The feet don't get a lot ...
Hair washing fetish3/4/2009Miss Red
  Q: I have a hair washing fetish and absolutely love my girlfriend washing it. Whether it be a simple ...
  A: Hey Mark! Sorry for the slow response, I've been asking around a little about your hair washing ...

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