AboutXR Expertise If your fetish involves gear I can take it on. From electrosex to medical play I'll give you the best shot I can. I deal with some of the strangest things on an everyday basis and would be glad to help answer any question you might have, no matter how crazy or mundane.
*New* If you're under 18, I'm no longer answering your questions. I understand that most people lose their virginities before they're 18, and that getting good advice, or even treated seriously as a sexual being can be problematic, but I'm not comfortable that the 12 year olds or such who are asking questions are always really 12 year olds and not strange old men or FBI agents. So, for any underage kids thinking of asking questions, here's my response up front: Use condoms (you aren't ready to have sex if you can't buy condoms), and don't do anything you're uncomfortable with.
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Question I'm dating this guy who has an incest fetish. He has never participated in it, nor does he plan to (he has no close female relatives), but he likes to pretend i'm his sister sometimes when we are having sex. he researches incest online quite often too. he doesn't know why he has this fetish, nor does he feel good about it. but it is a real turn-on for him. should i be worried about this fetish?
Answer In this situation I think that you need to look at how this thing can get the two of you into trouble. Lot's of people are into taboo stuff because its taboo nature makes it that much more appealing. Perhaps it's as simple as the appeal of being so swept up in the situation that you'd break taboos. Still, back to the trouble that it could get you into. I just don't see any. If he has no sister and no close female relatives then he doesn't even have any real person that he's creepily obsessing over. If this were a father daughter incest scenario that he were into, then I'd think twice about a future with him. Even then, some personal judgment is involved. The sister that turns him on is just some concept that's hot to him, and perhaps even if he did have a sister he might still be into this scenario without having the slightest sexual interest in his actual sister.
Given your situation I don't see it as being a very big issue. Good luck.
