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Question hey, whats up? not sure if you can cover my kind of festish/fetishes, but you may be able to help :)
so, what i wanted to say was, i've had fantasies about Asian girls (specifically Japanese) for a while now, i started watching anime and listening to visual kei music when i was 15, and then got into the whole japanese dress sense i.e. macabre, decora, gosuloli. then... i started watching japanese lesbian porn, and since then, i have always fantasised about japanese girls, and even seeing a japanese girl in the street makes me crazy, i mean, purely because i think they are adorable, but then the sexual thoughts start. if i was to ever have a japanese girlfriend, i would treat her so good, better than she could imagine, so maybe its not a fetish? i dont know, some crazy obsession probably. as i have aspergers syndrome, i am more prone to becoming obsessive. thanks for your time. i hope i havent confused you too much. haha.
Answer That wasn't really a question. Here's my best advice though. Women like it when you treat them like a person. They like to be appreciated for the the extra effort that they put into their appearance and style, but they want to be appreciated for the person they are, and not like the object of your obsession. So feel free to go after Japanese women, but keep in mind that while you may be into Japanese girls, they're just people with all the randomness and quirks that all people have. Also, not every Japanese girl is going to be someone you're compatible with. So don't think that one wrong relationship means you have to give up on Japanese girls forever.
Good luck, go out there and be the best guy you can be, and perhaps things will work out for you.
