AboutXR Expertise If your fetish involves gear I can take it on. From electrosex to medical play I'll give you the best shot I can. I deal with some of the strangest things on an everyday basis and would be glad to help answer any question you might have, no matter how crazy or mundane.
*New* If you're under 18, I'm no longer answering your questions. I understand that most people lose their virginities before they're 18, and that getting good advice, or even treated seriously as a sexual being can be problematic, but I'm not comfortable that the 12 year olds or such who are asking questions are always really 12 year olds and not strange old men or FBI agents. So, for any underage kids thinking of asking questions, here's my response up front: Use condoms (you aren't ready to have sex if you can't buy condoms), and don't do anything you're uncomfortable with.
Experience I'm here as a representative of www.eXtremeRestraints.com. We're one of the biggest online BDSM and fetish gear retailers in the world. We carry just about everything you could possibly be into. We spent a lot of time finding quality kink gear to carry and make sure that it's all high quality and consistently satisfying, so we should know our stuff.
Question I am curious to try and understand why I am interested in seeing other guys ejaculate over their sneakers/Trainers. (and sometimes actually over clothing eg leather jeans or a smart business suit).
Generally it has to be a particular make and style for example black Adidas Sambas, or Nike white Hi-tops. Sometimes the sensation is enhanced if the trainers are a little roughed up and dirty, and sometimes even if the "abuser" pisses on them first. I am not really worried about this and don't see it as a problem but am more curious about why I get a buzz from this and why some guys (and presumably to a lesser extent, girls) are well into this.
Thanks in anticipation.
Answer Sorry about this, but I don't explain fetishes. There are plenty of theories one could pull up, but I'm sticking with "don't know, don't care, don't worry about it." It's a good question if you want to get some debate and interesting conversation going, but nobody can tell you for sure why you're into what you're into. So long as you're happy with the way that you're living your life, and your fetish isn't coming between you and healthy relationships, it doesn't matter why.
Sorry I couldn't help. I wish you all the best though.
