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About XR
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If your fetish involves gear I can take it on. From electrosex to medical play I'll give you the best shot I can. I deal with some of the strangest things on an everyday basis and would be glad to help answer any question you might have, no matter how crazy or mundane.
*New* If you're under 18, I'm no longer answering your questions. I understand that most people lose their virginities before they're 18, and that getting good advice, or even treated seriously as a sexual being can be problematic, but I'm not comfortable that the 12 year olds or such who are asking questions are always really 12 year olds and not strange old men or FBI agents. So, for any underage kids thinking of asking questions, here's my response up front: Use condoms (you aren't ready to have sex if you can't buy condoms), and don't do anything you're uncomfortable with.
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You are here: Experts > People/Relationships > Fetishism > Fetishism > Strange Fetish - why?
Expert: XR
Date: 4/19/2008
Subject: Strange Fetish - why?
Question
I have a minor necrophilia fetish along with a pretty normal sexual life, but one that needs explaining all the same. It's girls being buried barefoot. The very idea of a gorgeous 15-35 year old girl or woman lying in a plush, dignified casket (lined with silk, satin, or velvet), a pillow under her head, in nice clothes (skirt or pants suit, blouse and skirt combo, or even a sweater and jeans) and barefoot, her soles rubbing on fine fabric for all eternity seems incredibly sublime, beautiful and arousing to me. It's like a foot/sensation/necro thing rolled into one, but for her and not me. Every time some young/good looking female dies I can't help but think about this and hope to god that she's buried with her toes showing (even if under the lid). I know of no documentation on this or why it came about, and was wondering if you've heard of it or have any ideas.
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Well it's new to me. I also don't know why you have it, but it doesn't really matter. We could come up with all kind of feasible sounding explanations, but they wouldn't really change you. You just happen to find something creepy erotic. Unless this is occupying your mind every waking hour, I would suggest that you just not care about it. Everyone is weird in some way, and at least you didn't end up some much more common jerk who's physically abusive to his loved ones. Unless your fetish is compelling you to some bizarre socially unacceptable actions, it shouldn't really be a problem for you. If you are disrupting funerals, then you seriously need to seek psychological counseling. Otherwise, move on.
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