Fetishism/Strange fetish

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Expert: christina Cicchelli - 10/21/2009


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There's a strange fetish I have, and it involves a scene from an episode of Star Trek; The Next Generation called "Darmok" where captain Picard and a humanoid alien called a Tamarian named Dathon are on a planet named El-Adrel, and while on the planet, an electromagnetic creature strikes Dathon across the face, blow after blow, critically injuring Dathon. Since I happen to be gay, I had a sexual attraction to Dathon, and I became sexually aroused when the creature pummeled Dathon's face and I first saw this episode when it aired on September 30, 1991, and ever since then, I often would have masturbatory fantasies about the electromagnetic creature pummeling the face/and or faces of a guy or guys I'm sexually attracted to, even though this is just a sexual fantasy/fetish I'm wondering what your thoughts are about this strange and interesting fetish? Thanks.

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Hey David,

So are you attracted to this electromagnetic creature? Or is it sexy to see the object of desire being beaten or pummeled? Is it all of the above? I would love to find out how you use this fantasy in your sex life and what you think it means for you.

What I like about your fantasy is that it only goes to show us that fetish goes above and beyond our conventional thoughts about the topic. It's so unique and special to everyone, and fantasies (like the one you experienced just by watching Star Trek) are ones that are specifically made unique by your own desires.

Hope to hear from you!

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Christina Cicchelli is a "Sexventurer" of sorts; she's spent over five years as a sex worker and has experience in a myriad of industries, including phone sex and professional domination. As a Mistress, she has worked in several NYC Dungeons and also visited devoted clients on an independent basis. As a phone sex operator, she maintained a large amount of callers who sought her guidance, creativity, and experience in fetish and role-play.

Christina is best known for her career as a porn actress. Under the non de plume, Simone Valentino, she's performed in a handful of films. She received an AVN nomination for “Best Actress” for her role in Afrodite Superstar and also won “Best New Starlet” at the Feminist Porn Awards in 2008 for her role in Audacia Ray's The Bi Apple.

Christina is a columnist for $pread Magazine and writes about all things fetish in own blog, A Fantastic Nightmare. She is also Betty Dodson and Carlin Ross’s resident Fetish Blogger on their sex-positive website (Dodsonandross.com) and coaches individuals and couples who seeking kinky inspiration in the bedroom.

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A Fantastic Nightmare (Personal Blog)

Dodsonandross.com - Sex positive website and home of sex educators and feminists Betty Dodson and Carlin Ross

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Graduate: The College of New Rochelle

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