Past/Present clients Have steady "patients" and Doctors/Nurses who like to fulfill their fantasies. My "specialty" is in providing "newbies --- the curious" with an environment to experience their fantasy and to explore their curiosity without the fear of being rejected, laughed at, thought to be weird, etc. Many females are curious about becoming aroused during a GYN exam OR they want to be the Doctor/Nurse and find the man's prostate. I have helped them all . . .
Question Hello there I have a clothes/logo fetish meaning more specifically hats, shirts, ties, suits, and logos from companies and other places sexually turn me on to the point where I have to have them. How common is this and what is the best way to handle this in public? I feel very awkward in stores and in public taking pics of every logo. The clothing fetishism is an expensive fetish to have as well as I mostly buy on credit card and a family member pays for everything not me as I currently don't have a job. He does not want to keep paying for that stuff yet it is pleasing to wear as a tool for masturbation. I have over 300 or so baseball hats and it is hard to not ask people about their clothes where they got it and stuff even though in some of the situations it turns out very awkward. Sometimes I ask people pics of their clothes so I can have it for future reference. How can I tone this fetishism down so I don't feel the need to keep asking people and buying stuff compulsively? My therapist doesn't seem to know much about it.
Answer Recognition of the problem is the first step. Replacing it with something else is the next. The nice thing about logo clothing is that much of it can be gotten for free or at reduced prices (like at the Goodwill store). You do need to get control of this and my suggestion is that you immediately LEAVE a situation that causes you to behave in a way that you do not want.