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About Miss Red
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I answer questions on a varying range of soft-core fetishes such as foot, hair, role-play, leather, etc. I am also able to answer questions on more hard-core fetishes such as sexual sadism, rape, humiliation, blood-play, incest, genital torture, scat, etc.

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I have many fetishes of my own, and those I do not partake in personally I have researched either through various texts, or by introducing myself to the environment and people that do participate and relish in them.

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Bachelor of Social Work (BSW)

 
   

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Fetishism - Agressive BBW


Expert: Miss Red - 3/15/2009

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Hi miss Red again, you answered a question for me, but there's a little more to my needs, my wife's a fun loving BBW, over 300lbs and solid as a tank, I wrote to you about being w/ 2 BBW and I'd love to enhance it actually being between both BBW ( 300 lbs or more ) during a catfight, first of all I'm a normal size guy who's very passive, my wife's is passive but I was told by everyone that she has a short fuse & is un-stopable... We're both light skin latinos, about 2 years ago I chatted with a black BBW, 12 yrs younger than my wife who's into catfighting, titfighting, etc... I sent her pics of my wife & I, this lady told me my wife looks very agressive, she'd love to fight her, she said it'l be an awesome powerful fight, but also told me that I'd get hurt or even killed if I was between them at their full furry. Miss Red when I was 9y/o I got caught between two girls in a fight in 5th grade, I was like the cheese of a grilled cheese sandwich as the spatula presses the bread, I had one girl's body lined up behind me pushing me into the girl in the front, ( her vagina on my butt pushing my penis on the front girls' vagina ), I can only imagine the pain and pleasure of being squashed by these two BBW powerful women, I'm afraid my wife will change towards me if I tell her what I want, that I found a possible 3rd, & that I fantasize about it al of the time..... I'm also into tribadism, boobs on boobs, kissing, as long as I get a turn between them, I'm submissive & would love for both of them to take charge, I'm hopng I'm worth it to two women... Wife isn't bi at all!!!!!!!

Answer
Well Robert, its always nice to hear from a man who knows specifically what he is looking for. Cat-fights are definitely a turn on for most men, but in your situation you've got to be a little bit more careful.

You've told me a few important facts:
1. You're talking about a fight between two BBW.
2. One is 12 years younger than your wife.
3. Your wife isn't bisexual.

You've got to look at the facts Robert. The chances of you convincing your wife to take part in a cat-fight as a form of sexual play isn't likely. She has no inclination toward other women, so kissing and boob-play is automatically out.

Lets also not forget that we women are jealous creatures. Tell your wife that you are considering a sexual three-way with a woman twelve years her junior, and you're going to have a fight on your hands, but not quite the one you're looking for! Especially if you've heard your wife has a temperament!

Also, consider that what your black BBW is telling you may be true. If there was a fight between your wife and her, you may not want to be in between it. I understand it is a fantasy of yours, and its hard to turn down a fantasy (believe me, I know!) but you need to be sure you're not going to get seriously hurt in the end. Or that you're not going to hurt your wife in the process as well.

Overall Robert, all I can say is that I highly doubt your wishes for this fetish will come true. If your wife is not open to it, there is not a whole lot you're going to be able to do. At best, you may be able to inspire a fight out of her and the black BBW, whilst throwing yourself in between, but I highly doubt any willing sexual activities will occur. You don't want to cause a rift in your relationship with your wife if you can help it. A happy wife makes a happy husband!

Best of luck with it, but I think this fantasy is best left in the spank bank! ;)

-Miss Red

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