About Miss Red Expertise I answer questions on a varying range of soft-core fetishes such as foot, hair, role-play, leather, etc.
I am also able to answer questions on more hard-core fetishes such as sexual sadism, rape, humiliation, blood-play, incest, genital torture, scat, etc.
Experience I have many fetishes of my own, and those I do not partake in personally I have researched either through various texts, or by introducing myself to the environment and people that do participate and relish in them.
Education/Credentials Bachelor of Social Work (BSW)
Question its has been a huge mystery on how i really started like feet all i do know is ive been likeing them since i was little why i DONT know. As time went by as i got older i started likeing them more and more. Until oneday while i was in california i came across one of my friends mom feet and because a few days ago me and my fake brothers came across porn thats the first time i watched something like that. Near the end, the guy in the video started jacking off i was 12 when i saw something like that so a few days later i was at a friends house and i really liked his moms feet so i wonder waht jacking off really felt like so i hid in my friend's room (he was sleep) looked under the door where i could see her feet and stared playing whit my self at first it was scare but as i kepted going it felt really good. I came all on the floor but to get to the i am 17 going 18 and it has been a constant struggle to control my disires for feet ive looked on the computere just to look at them and then go home and jackoff i cant understand i need a understanding im so tired of hiding in the closet i need help this will help me a whole lot thanks for your valuble time please HELP!!!!!!
Answer Dearest Kevin,
Everyone usually has a preference to a certain part of the body. I'm not sure if you've heard the saying that every man is either into legs, breasts, or butts. This is kind of what you're going through, but it is just with a less common part of the body.
The age of twelve is clearly when you started going through puberty and sexually experimenting, so you began focusing more on your preferred part of the body in a sexual manner.
Overall, there is absolutely nothing strange about your fetish for feet! In fact, if you go through other questions I've answered, you'll notice a majority of them are from people just like yourself. People with a love for feet.
The best thing I can suggest is to maybe talk to other people with the same fetish as you, there are websites meant specifically for people with foot fetishes, and even some porn that emphasizes the feet in the most sexual manner possible (a foot-job, for example).
I would suggest checking out this website, it is a forum for people with foot fetishes, you may find some people to talk to with the same experiences as yourself! http://www.footster.net/forum/
Don't worry so much about what you're into, learn to embrace it. One day you're going to find yourself a woman who loves having your attention on her feet, and then you won't be so confused. You're still young (believe me, I'm young myself! I know how frustrating it can be trying to work through sexual desires) so learn to live a little!
