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My 6 year old sons' Father and I aren't married, nor do we see each other ofen. However, whenever he comes over to visit my son, my sons Dad always encourages our son to play with girls rather than boys. I caught him talking to a little girl in our neighbourhood who was 6 and my son wasn't around, but he was fixated on the fact she painted her toenails and went as far as to tell her 'she is pretty girl' and she has a 'nice complexion'.
I am aware that my sons Father has ALWAYS had a foot fetish, but with little girls? This is not the first time he has taken interest in little girls the age of around 6. A good friend of his, Laura, has two little girls and one in particular he would literally be obsessed with, always talking about her, playing with her as he lived with them at one point.
There is also a third little girl, this one also lives in my complex just like the first one I mentioned above. My sons Father and I, along with our son were driving home from grocery shopping one evening. When we got out of the car, there was this little girl named Erika just playing by herself. His first comment was...awww she's a cute little girl!!! He asked her what she was playing and told our son let's come back outside and see if she wants to play. He never mentions, Where is Brandon or even Anthony.
See, this would almost sound innocent to the average person who doesn't really know him. They might think..well maybe he loves kids and little girls in particular. My sons Father hardly ever sees his son as for 15 years I have seen him be a womazier, usually finds being in the company of women more important than teaching his son how to ride a bike, nor does he care to pay child support. There women are also 19 year old 'young women' as this is what he preferes. Mind you, he met me when I was 16 and persued me for years until I got pregnant. When my sons Father comes to visit on Sunday, which are suppose his visitation days, he is more concerned with me (toes and backside).
What is your take on this situation? What is my sons Dads problem!!! He's 40!!!!!!
ANSWER: I've read all that you have written and I am having trouble making the connection between your son and the Father of your son.
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QUESTION: Im not sure your statement under the answer section makes sense to me. The issue I am having is with my sons Father...the details are above, his obsession with feet and second of all why to the extent of the feet of little girls? Does that not seem odd to you?
OK - the "feet" thing is OK to a certain extent; no matter what it is, when it becomes something that directs your everyday activities, then it is getting in the way.
As to the feet of little girls - there's no explanation that will ever make that right!
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