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About christina Cicchelli
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I can answer the following questions about fetishism:

  • How to talk to your partner about your kinky fantasies
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Christina Cicchelli is a "Sexventurer" of sorts; she's spent over five years as a sex worker and has experience in a myriad of industries, including phone sex and professional domination. As a Mistress, she has worked in several NYC Dungeons and also visited devoted clients on an independent basis. As a phone sex operator, she maintained a large amount of callers who sought her guidance, creativity, and experience in fetish and role-play.

Christina is best known for her career as a porn actress. Under the non de plume, Simone Valentino, she's performed in a handful of films. She received an AVN nomination for “Best Actress” for her role in Afrodite Superstar and also won “Best New Starlet” at the Feminist Porn Awards in 2008 for her role in Audacia Ray's The Bi Apple.

Christina is a columnist for $pread Magazine and writes about all things fetish in own blog, A Fantastic Nightmare. She is also Betty Dodson and Carlin Ross’s resident Fetish Blogger on their sex-positive website (Dodsonandross.com) and coaches individuals and couples who seeking kinky inspiration in the bedroom.

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A Fantastic Nightmare (Personal Blog)

Dodsonandross.com - Sex positive website and home of sex educators and feminists Betty Dodson and Carlin Ross

$pread Magazine - Printed publication for sex workers written and produced by sex workers


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Graduate: The College of New Rochelle

Masters: English/Communications


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2007: "Best New Starlet" - Feminist Porn Awards 2008: "Best New Actress" - AVN Awards

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Fetishism - BBW


Expert: christina Cicchelli - 9/10/2009

Question
My wife is a bbw and has grown rather fond of sitting on my best friend.  He loves it and told us that there is a fetish that people would pay for to have a bbw sit on them.  Clothed of course.  is this true and what is it called?

Answer
Hello Jason,

Sorry for the delayed response. This fun activity is called squashing and it is common. Just as you described, your lover is slammed or squashed by someone who is of sizable weight. Something similar to that is trampling, a fetish that involves stepping or jumping on top of your lover, as if to treat them like a human carpet. Last year, a couple appeared on the Tyra Banks show to discuss their enjoyment of squashing and also provided footage of their sessions. Regardless, unless you're looking for porn, it's tougher to find a website that proves informational to those interested in Squashing.

Yes, you can make money from this particular fetish. If you are interested in doing so, you can start by quickly building a website (you can sign up to use yahoo sitebuilder or google sites for free). On this website, you can list prices, include pictures of your wife squashing you or her friend, provide pictures of your beautiful wife in a gallery, discuss how arrangements are made, and provide contact information. I would suggest keeping a separate email account exclusively for potential clients. You can arrange to meet them at their apartment or you can rent space from bdsm dungeons and fantasy studios in your area. Prices can be based on hourly sessions - to get an idea of how much one would pay, I suggest doing a bit of research and determine what other Professional Dommes are charging for this service. Advertise on Craig's List and in different adult classifieds (she can block out her face to avoid being noticed) and eventually you should receive inquiries from those desperately in need of being squashed.

If you need more information about how to start your own squashing fetish business, please let me know.

Thank you!!!

CC

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