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Fetishism - watersports


Expert: christina Cicchelli - 9/27/2009

Question
 The thought of water sports drive me crazy!!   I want so bad to do it with my wife (meaning her on my face and letting it flow like a river)   How do I ask her... she is not too erotic

Answer
Hey Dave,

Sorry about the delayed response. I actually wrote a small article about water sports and other bodily fluid fetishes on my website if you want to check it out (http://afantasticnightmare.wordpress.com/2009/07/09/pisspukeshit/).

Since most people are squeamish about watersports, so the first talk should be about breaking down the yuck-factor of urine play and framing your ideal play session in a very comfortable and casual encounter.

The best casual encounter is in the shower. This can be before or after the both of you wash up. First let her pee on your foot and on your foot so she can get used to the sensation and you can show her how easy and fun it can be. Once she's up for the small but significant challenge, lie down on the floor of the bathtub and have her piss first on your chest, then on your face (The reason? She may be reluctant to kiss you or touch your face after she's peed on it).

The name of the game is baby steps. When you initiate the conversation, let her know that it's really fun and not a very big deal. Tell her that you can do it really quickly in the shower and you can wash off right after. But, it's very important that you package this fetish as a fun and positive experience for the both of you, one that you find very pleasurable and need to share with her. Make sure to give her time to ask questions and voice concerns. If the yuck-factor is still a big deal, then remember baby steps. Tell her she can pee on your foot for starters... then the hand... then onward. But, go at a pace that makes her feel comfortable.

Also, make sure to express the same pleasure and excitement you would feel if she was peeing in your mouth. You can let her know that ultimately  it would be ideal if she can do this for you. But, for now, you're just as happy with her experimenting with the sensation of peeing on you.

Let me know how this goes! And good luck!

Christina

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