Expert: PLAY DOCTOR - 5/27/2005

Question
Hiya, my location is west ealing, i am of 24 years of age and i would describe my physical description as at it's peak and of a toned nature. I am experienced with both men and women but am yet to delve into the area of anal penetration. i have been with the same partner for a few years now and we are finding that sex is getting monotonous and i often find myself failing to hold a solid purple erection. She has suggested that we both things towards her anal hole but Im unsure. Will it hurt my willy and will it hurt her, my willy stands at an impressive 5 inchs and 3 centremetres when i have a really solid one and would hate to hurt in the name of love. Can u advise me how the process should be started and if im a suitable person to indulge in this act.  

Answer
1. Engaging in anal intercourse is not going to change things such that you are able to maintain an erection.

2. Engaging in anal intercourse will require that you maintain a solid erection.

3.  The key to anal intercourse is proper preparation.  This also means she is going to have to want it, breathe through her mouth, exhale at the moment of penetration and bear down such as having a bowel movement.

4.  Proper preparation also means that you will have to use plenty of lubrication and introduce smaller things first . . . a finger, two fingers, etc.  Small toys and butt plugs are also effective and it may take 20-30 minutes or so for her to become "ready".

5. The best way to understand anal intercourse is also to experience it yourself.  Have her do the same to you.

6. If you "go easy" you won't hurt her; for yourself, be sure to use a condom and never introduce anything into the vagina after it has been in the rectum.

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Have fun.

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