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Fetishism - Male Fetish?


Expert: PLAY DOCTOR - 10/2/2006

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Hello:
My boyfriend has had a difficult life growing up - feelings of not being loved and feeling that his parents did not want kids at all (there are 4 kids in this family).  He has told me that he gets these urges to dress in lingere when there are family problems as it makes him feel good.  He also told me he would like to dress up and be humilitated in front of other men who are straight.  He wants to be called a fag even though he is straight.  Can this stem from his childhood?  Could have something to do with the way his mother treated him?  For your information, my boyfriend is 41, has his own house and otherwise leads a normal life.  Right now, there is alot on his mind as family problems - "narsistic" problems are once again arising with his parents, brother and sister.  Any information would be greatly appreciated.  Thank you.
Barbara

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TWO things going on here --- 1) There is some history and that needs to be addressed in profesional therapy.  2) So long as he cncome to terms with it and it does notimpact/affect his life (and - ifhe shared it with you heis dealing with it OK) --- then let him dress -- may even be fun for the two of you!  I'd even suggest some spanking and rectal temperature taking; perhaps even an enema!

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