Follow-Ups to Answer from Expert Ataraxia

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Virgie wrote at 2007-01-07 21:40:34
Fetishism is most certainly not a disease. I am a female with a breast fetish. I suppose it's more appropriate to say that I have a nursing fetish. In terms of signs that you are a fetishist, it's difficult not to know that you are fixated or obssessed with something. Fetish signs could be: 1) the object of your fetish is the only thing that turns you on, 2) you think about the object of your fetish incessantly, 3) you find that you are unable to be fulfilled sexually without the presence/fantasy of the object of our fetish. I identify as a fetishist because the idea of breasts and nipples get me so incredibly turned on (in a way that nothing else does) and for 20 years I was unable to orgasm by any sexual activity beside masturbation that involved fantasizing about large breasts and/or watching porn with large breasted women in it. I also find that I am unable to have a relationship with a man who is not also breast-obssessed as I expect my breasts to receive the most attention of any of my body parts. My ideal partner would seldom even want penetrative sex because he would be so engulfed in sucking my breasts. Hope that helps!  

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