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About christina Cicchelli
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Expertise

I can answer the following questions about fetishism:

  • How to talk to your partner about your kinky fantasies
  • How to set up a "play date" for you and your partner so you can act out your fantasies.
  • How to practice your fantasies and fetishes solo.
  • The different organizations, clubs, or resources one want to contact
Crossdressers
  • How to approach your lover about your crossdressing fetish
  • How to play with your lover is s/he is a crossdresser
  • Different ways to can continue to make this fetish work for you
Other kinky specialities:
  • Animal Transformation
  • Foot Fetish
  • Role-Play
  • BDSM
  • Object fetish
"Unique" or "Uncommon" Fetishes:
  • Fantasies that involve supernatural creatures, celebrities, etc
  • Fantasies that may involve body growth, shrinkage, weight gain, etc.
  • Fantasies that include elaborate scenarios, scripted role-play, etc.
  • A combination of one or more fetishes
Edgeplay
  • Bloodplay
  • Watersports
  • Coprophilia/coprophagia
  • Roman Showers
  • Intense, consensual role-play with taboo or controversial themes (Rape-fantasy, animal-play, etc)

I can't answer the following:

In-depth information about medical play or bondage

If you need further guidance or coaching, then please call my phone line:

(646) 250-4999. Call for a free 10 minute phone consultation. I also offer hour-long coaching sessions for the practicing pervert.

Experience

BIO

Christina Cicchelli is a "Sexventurer" of sorts; she's spent over five years as a sex worker and has experience in a myriad of industries, including phone sex and professional domination. As a Mistress, she has worked in several NYC Dungeons and also visited devoted clients on an independent basis. As a phone sex operator, she maintained a large amount of callers who sought her guidance, creativity, and experience in fetish and role-play.

Christina is best known for her career as a porn actress. Under the non de plume, Simone Valentino, she's performed in a handful of films. She received an AVN nomination for “Best Actress” for her role in Afrodite Superstar and also won “Best New Starlet” at the Feminist Porn Awards in 2008 for her role in Audacia Ray's The Bi Apple.

Christina is a columnist for $pread Magazine and writes about all things fetish in own blog, A Fantastic Nightmare. She is also Betty Dodson and Carlin Ross’s resident Fetish Blogger on their sex-positive website (Dodsonandross.com) and coaches individuals and couples who seeking kinky inspiration in the bedroom.

Publications

A Fantastic Nightmare (Personal Blog)

Dodsonandross.com - Sex positive website and home of sex educators and feminists Betty Dodson and Carlin Ross

$pread Magazine - Printed publication for sex workers written and produced by sex workers


Education/Credentials

Graduate: The College of New Rochelle

Masters: English/Communications


Awards and Honors
2007: "Best New Starlet" - Feminist Porn Awards 2008: "Best New Actress" - AVN Awards

Past/Present Clients
Confidential but verifiable references are available

   

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Questions Answered By Expert  christina Cicchelli 
In Category  Fetishism

SubjectDate Asked

Play wrestling with my hubbie11/15/2009
  Q: How do i sit on my husbands chest correctly to pin him down while play wrestling? How high on his ...
  A: From my own personal experience, I always ask my clients if they have any sort of chest or breathing ...
rape-play11/11/2009
  Q: To be honest with you...I am embarrassed to be asking about it or even thinking it. It is not really ...
  A: Sorry for the delayed response. Problems with the computer. Let me first just discuss your sexual ...
underwear fetish11/9/2009
  Q: I feel bad about an underwear fetish. What does this say about my personality if anything? How can I ...
  A: Hey Adam, Let's start with the definition of a relationship. You say you are attracted to boys, ...
follow up11/5/2009
  Q: Christina thank you for the fast response. I had to look up cuckold and that is not what I want. We ...
  A: Hey Brad, Okay, so now it's back to your basic desires. And, so often partners in a relationship ...
underwear fetish11/5/2009
  Q: I feel bad about an underwear fetish. What does this say about my personality if anything? How can I ...
  A: i don't think you have a problem at all! Do you find your underwear your fetish to have a very ...
Navel11/4/2009
  Q: What is navel fetish and how do you do it. Please give detailed examples if possible.
  A: Umbiliphilia, or navel fetishism, is the attraction to and arousal of navels. Whether through direct ...
previous help11/3/2009
  Q: She also wanted to be a little more dominant and use a strapon on me which we agreed on. The advice ...
  A: Wow, I'm sorry about what happened. You need to sit your wife down and give her a straightforward ...
one more11/3/2009
  Q: sorry, i asked you a question but i forgot to ask you one more question. i also have a slight ...
  A: Hey there, I might have misunderstood you before when you asked me these questions. So do you want ...
BDSM11/1/2009
  Q: OK I am looking for some weapons to use to torture my friends while doing bdsm. Like some people are ...
  A: Hey Vanessa, My first question to you is what type of role play scenario are you and your friend ...
Strange fetish10/21/2009
  Q: There's a strange fetish I have, and it involves a scene from an episode of Star Trek; The Next ...
  A: Hey David, So are you attracted to this electromagnetic creature? Or is it sexy to see the object ...
Fetishism in developing countries.10/17/2009
  Q: I was wondering whether or not if it's true that people in developing countries might have sexual ...
  A: Sorry for the long wait, David. Mysophilia is the sexual attraction to mud, dirt, or any surface ...
Possible causes of sexual fetishism.10/12/2009
  Q: I'm wondering if you might know what the possible causes of sexual fetishism could be. I've read ...
  A: Hey David, Based upon my experience and what I've learned, there is no concrete cause for sexual ...
Material fetishism?10/10/2009
  Q: This is a two-part question, the first question is if having a fetish for leather or rubber, for ...
  A: Happy Columbus Day! I would agree that both leather and rubber can be considered a form of material ...
Question about a possible fetish.10/10/2009
  Q: I'm a gay guy and I've known from a very early age that I was different in that regard. While I was ...
  A: Hey David, You know, that is so funny. Just recently I was an admiring a dinner date. He had a ...
What am I?10/9/2009
  Q: I guess I need to ask someone for help about myself. I'm a 38 yr old virgin,who has never even ...
  A: You don't have to be sorry at all - I'll be happy to help you! Everyone's sexual identity is very ...
my boyfriends strange fetishes..10/4/2009
  Q: hey, i am 16 years old and have been with my boyfriend for about 4 months now, everything is ...
  A: Hey Charlie, Your concerns are natural and, since you watched 2 girls 1 cup (which I've seen as ...
watersports9/27/2009
  Q: The thought of water sports drive me crazy!! I want so bad to do it with my wife (meaning her on ...
  A: Hey Dave, Sorry about the delayed response. I actually wrote a small article about water sports ...
BBW9/16/2009
  Q: My wife is a bbw and has grown rather fond of sitting on my best friend. He loves it and told us ...
  A: Hey Jason, For this particular business, you can go down several avenues. The simplest way to ...
fetish9/15/2009
  Q: I was hoping you could maybe explain what I think is maybe a fetish or just a fantasy. My wife and I ...
  A: Hey B.A. I would suggest Violet Blue's "Fetish Sex: An Erotic Guide for Couples" - it has a ...
fetish9/15/2009
  Q: I was hoping you could maybe explain what I think is maybe a fetish or just a fantasy. My wife and I ...
  A: Hey B.A. There is NOTHING wrong with you! Over time, our sexual identities can change, and this ...
BBW9/10/2009
  Q: My wife is a bbw and has grown rather fond of sitting on my best friend. He loves it and told us ...
  A: Sorry for the delayed response. This fun activity is called squashing and it is common. Just as you ...
Smoking/Crossdressing/Age8/22/2009
  Q: My name is Kenny and I'm a really messed up guy. I'm not a bad guy. I just have a lot of issues, ...
  A: Hey Kenny, If you spoke to your wife about your "unhealthy" fetishes the same way you talked to ...

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