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About XR
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If your fetish involves gear I can take it on. From electrosex to medical play I'll give you the best shot I can. I deal with some of the strangest things on an everyday basis and would be glad to help answer any question you might have, no matter how crazy or mundane. *New* If you're under 18, I'm no longer answering your questions. I understand that most people lose their virginities before they're 18, and that getting good advice, or even treated seriously as a sexual being can be problematic, but I'm not comfortable that the 12 year olds or such who are asking questions are always really 12 year olds and not strange old men or FBI agents. So, for any underage kids thinking of asking questions, here's my response up front: Use condoms (you aren't ready to have sex if you can't buy condoms), and don't do anything you're uncomfortable with.

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I'm here as a representative of www.eXtremeRestraints.com. We're one of the biggest online BDSM and fetish gear retailers in the world. We carry just about everything you could possibly be into. We spent a lot of time finding quality kink gear to carry and make sure that it's all high quality and consistently satisfying, so we should know our stuff.

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Questions Answered By Expert  XR 
In Category  Fetishism

SubjectDate Asked

diaper fetish9/25/2008
  Q: I am a 19 year old girl and i have a diaper fetish. I have had this diaper fetish ever since i can ...
  A: Alright, you're 19 and you've been engaged since you were 16 or 17. Although you're ready to marry ...
internal ejaculate fetish8/22/2008
  Q: ive searched on the web for anything reguarding this topic with no luck, so it may not be a true all ...
  A: Sorry to take so long getting back to you. I don't think you have a fetish so much as you have a ...
Blood Fetish ?8/14/2008
  Q: My boyfriend has this thing for blood, and I'm not *quite* sure what makes a fetish a fetish. I'm ...
  A: It's only really a fetish if he can't come without it, but fetish has been cheapened in common usage ...
Gay Anal Fisting7/28/2008
  Q: I am a 20 year old gay male, intrested in fisting. I have become more and more curious as time has ...
  A: I'm really glad that your boyfriend is afraid to hurt you. You're going to be using your ass for the ...
role play fetish7/16/2008
  Q: Hopefully I am in the right place. i have a roll play fetish that i cant seem to find any ...
  A: You don't have a fetish unless you can only achieve orgasm in this scenario. You have a fairly ...
my strange weird fetish6/22/2008
  Q: i love the feel of plastic it feels so nice (plastic sheets + wearing plastic bin bags etc) + i like ...
  A: You're only a freak when it goes tragically wrong and someone somehow gets hurt, asphyxiated, etc... ...
Fetishism Rooted in Alice in Wonderland6/18/2008
  Q: Now, it's fairly common to hear people with an affiliation for giantesses, or size-changing, to ...
  A: I think way too many self proclaimed fetishists have some need to track down the source of their ...
stomach ache fetish6/2/2008
  Q: I have a fetish with stomach aches. It's not really a fetish because I can orgasm without thinking ...
  A: Of course you realize that your tummy ache fetish adds an upside to tummy aches. You should really ...
TRAMPLING INSECTS?5/27/2008
  Q: MY BOYFRIEND IS 33 I'M 23. HES INTO TRAMPLING /STOMPING. BIG FOOT FETISH. NOW IM FINDING THESE ...
  A: Perhaps you might ask him up front if he really wants you to crush mice for him. Just try ...
Fetish gone?5/15/2008
  Q: Hey there, I emailed you a while back about a diaper fetish I admitted to having. However, after I ...
  A: I have in the past suggested that people with uncomfortable fetishes try your approach. I'm not so ...
how do you get into the design side of the sex industry?5/8/2008
  Q: I have kind of a weird question. I want to get into the sex industry, but I want to get into the sex ...
  A: So Jack, Here's what you need know. First off, the porn industry is much bigger and employs a lot ...
cross dress4/30/2008
  Q: I have been a closet cross-dresser for most of my life. My wife is the only one who knows of my ...
  A: Google: cross dresser makeover. Try some other key words. There are business that do what you want ...
Strange Fetish - why?4/19/2008
  Q: I have a minor necrophilia fetish along with a pretty normal sexual life, but one that needs ...
  A: Well it's new to me. I also don't know why you have it, but it doesn't really matter. We could come ...
Balancing a fetish urge within a relationship4/7/2008
  Q: pads, and football uniforms since I was a kid and have accepted the fact it will not stop as I am ...
  A: The balance really depends on your particular relationship. What matters first and foremost is that ...
Smoke3/10/2008
  Q: Is there a chance that you know the name of having a smoke fetish? Not smoking fetish, but simply ...
  A: Congratulation, you're too obscure for the internet. Essentially that means that nobody has formed a ...
is this normal2/29/2008
  Q: for some reason when ever i see a women or a young lady who is over the age of lets say 17 and there ...
  A: Nope, totally not normal, but there are plenty of dudes into pregnant chicks. When you search for ...
degrading latex2/26/2008
  Q: I have an easy one for you... I wear latex.I can't afford the high-end stuff so I buy the stuff i ...
  A: From my research, latex is sensitive stuff. Sunlight, fluorescent light, soap, and more can damage ...
wearing tights2/14/2008
  Q: is it wrong for me to wear tights and how do i stop gettin shy when i buy them
  A: Nope. It's totally not wrong. Unless of course you're wearing them with a rainbow clown wig and ...
question about my 9 yr old son2/14/2008
  Q: I am hoping someone here can relate to doing something like this as a child. I don't understand it, ...
  A: I tend to believe that you're stuck with the quirks that you've got and that no amount of counseling ...
what do you think?2/13/2008
  Q: jobs being related to "fetish sex"? OH PLEASE. ppl seem to think life is all about jobs, thats ...
  A: Yeah, I figured out that it was you. You write like someone who was raised by message boards where ...
Diaper Fetish2/13/2008
  Q: Hey there, I was writing to inquire about my self-recognized diaper fetish. This particular fetish ...
  A: Sorry for the slow response. Here's my best advice: First, is it really a fetish. A lot of sexual ...
question about my 9 yr old son2/9/2008
  Q: I am hoping someone here can relate to doing something like this as a child. I don't understand it, ...
  A: I'm sorry to have taken so long. This is a heavy question that deserves a lot of thought, and I've ...
is it wrong2/4/2008
  Q: I have following fetishes, 1) I die to lick the nose of my wife( putting tongue inside the nostrils ...
  A: Nope, your fetishes aren't wrong. In fact 4, 5, and 6 on your list are considered pretty tame. 1, 2, ...
Unusual turn on1/25/2008
  Q: Not sure if this is maybe out of your subject range but I thought I'd give it a try. As long as I ...
  A: Dang J, You are hopelessly a freak and will probably die alone. But not really. You actually ...
Tights...1/24/2008
  Q: I'd like to apologize in advance for some of the freaky things I'm about to say....let me just get ...
  A: This is rough. This is one of those things where the internet is not an effective cheap alternative ...
what should i do? i hope this gets read... its probably too boring though but i need some advice1/9/2008
  Q: argh well this is gonna be pretty long, i apologize in advance. i doubt anyone will bother to answer ...
  A: Sorry about the late response, but you need to grow up. Stop focusing on your whiny problems and ...
Overcoming a "fake" fetish1/3/2008
  Q: I'm 21 years old and I've had this problem over the past couple years. I once stumbled across some ...
  A: Maybe you need to look at what really turns you on about farting and logic yourself deeper into it ...
sneaker fetish12/13/2007
  Q: am i gay ? because i really like to do what im doing. but im still worried.
  A: Hey Satish, Are you Indian? That would make being gay rougher. All I have to go on right here is a ...
Masturbation Fetish11/22/2007
  Q: Then I like to masturbate and sometimes even cum in the clothing. Is this ok? I mean it's not all ...
  A: Nope, not okay. Your fetish is fine, but cumming in someone else's clothing makes you an ...
Is my wife interested in give me anal?11/18/2007
  Q: My wife and I have been married for 13 years and she has rubbed her fingers gently over my anus in ...
  A: Yeah, this is one of those questions I could solve by forwarding it to your wife. Try this "Hey, how ...
my fetish11/18/2007
  Q: I'm a 22 year old male, I have a pretty serious fetish. I'm very aroused by women wearing petticoats ...
  A: Don't beg and whine. You didn't say that you were begging and whining, but if you were, that makes ...
Cashmere Fetish11/8/2007
  Q: I have go crazy when i touch soft things. Cashmere arouses me to an insane degree. I find myself ...
  A: Hey Max, There are so many sensation fetishists out there. You are far from alone. I think that ...
Help Me Understand/Participate in His Fetish11/4/2007
  Q: I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. I am 35 and he is 28. I have a high desire for sex from ...
  A: I hope I can help. This is a little outside of the fetish world. I'd say that your problem comes ...
giantess fetishes, stomping, and how to find it on your own.10/6/2007
  Q: I realise the tall girl fetish is growing and alought it doesnt get as much notice as other but it ...
  A: I am not your search engine. It's time to learn to use Google. Just grab search terms from your own ...
smoking fetish9/26/2007
  Q: okay hi um where to start, I'm andy im 17 and i've had this smoking fetish for about 2 years now ...
  A: Sorry for taking a while to get back to you. As I understand it you're disturbed by your fetish and ...
menstruation9/26/2007
  Q: ..I really enjoy having sex when my partner is on her period. I know that all womens pleasures vary ...
  A: Hey AK, I was going to get lazy on this one and give you a simple "Doesn't matter." Then I got to ...
Foot fetish9/19/2007
  Q: I am 21 years old. I have had a foot fetish for as long as i can remember. It has led me to ...
  A: I'm pretty sure there is no cure. It's a losing battle. You can see a hypnotherapist and see if they ...
Foot fetish9/19/2007
  Q: I am 21 years old. I have had a foot fetish for as long as i can remember. It has led me to ...
  A: I don't believe it. You come back with the part of your religion that's against masturbation and ...
Fetish Clothing7/20/2007
  Q: What is the significance of fetish clothing in BDSM and in what way does clothing enhance a scene.
  A: I'm not going to go in depth, because this goes to the psychology of clothing. Why do people where ...
ageplay6/2/2007
  Q: Im a 20 year old female and after a long seperation from my paartner who is a 24 year old male- we ...
  A: I'm here representing www.eXtremeRestraints.com as a public service/marketing effort. We sell a ...
ageplay6/1/2007
  Q: Im a 20 year old female and after a long seperation from my paartner who is a 24 year old male- we ...
  A: I'm glad your not an adult baby, as that would be harder to deal with. However I don't envy your ...
ageplay5/31/2007
  Q: Im a 20 year old female and after a long seperation from my paartner who is a 24 year old male- we ...
  A: I hate to have to be a downer, but the creep out factor on ageplay is pretty high. I don't know the ...
masterbation5/22/2007
  Q: I have this way of getting masterbation formyself. I have a thing where I lay down on my tummy in a ...
  A: I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but unless you're 13-16 yourself, you need to change. Everyone ...
Breast Fetish4/28/2007
  Q: if breasts are an erogenous zone, who can they be a fetish item? Is there a willy or clitoral fetish ...
  A: There is no big book of state recognized fetishes. If you're upset because I didn't answer "Is there ...
Breast Fetish4/27/2007
  Q: if breasts are an erogenous zone, who can they be a fetish item? Is there a willy or clitoral fetish ...
  A: The term fetish is widely used to identify something that people fixate on, especially sexually. ...
fetish4/20/2007
  Q: is it true that some people have sex with badgers during easter? Why is this?
  A: There are a lot of reasons that I should ignore this question. A quick Google search will tell you ...
Meeting fetishist women...1/17/2007
  Q: I've got a pantyhose fetish, sorry if I just jumped right into it, but it sounded like you didn't ...
  A: Razor, A pantyhose fetish, whether it's seeing or feeling them on a woman or wearing them yourself ...

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