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About Graham Smith
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I know I can help and guide teenagers in all problems they might come across. I also have a degree in management of people from the university of liverpool (UK)

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I am a father to two children,boy and girl. My son is 26 and my daughter is 24. I have been married to my wife for 29 years. I have seen my children grow and fall in thier growing up. When problems came my way,that caused my children to be hurt in some way I felt I have done my best to guide them.

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Topic: What to Do on a First Date



Expert: Graham Smith
Date: 4/27/2008
Subject: date in the ditch

Question
my boyfriend and i meet in this dried up drainage ditch every day.  we relly like eachother and i want to get things moving.  i was wondering how to kiss him, or how to get him to kiss me. Would it be slutty if i put my feet in his lap?

Answer
hiya
firstly no it would not be slutty to put your feet in his lap.. now on to more things.....

The date's gone well, and now it's almost over. As the minutes tick away, bringing you closer and closer to that awkward moment at the end of the night, you realize you aren't sure what you'll do when the time arrives. You want to instigate some lip-to-lip magic, but you aren't sure of how to kiss him. Here are some tips on the how and when of kissing.
   
Before you even think about how to kiss your date, ask yourself whether or not you should go in for the kiss. Look for positive body language, such as eye contact, uncrossed arms and head tilted toward you.If the signs are there, then lean in and do it. Waiting just makes the moment awkward. Maintain eye contact as you close in for the kiss. Try not to close your eyes until after making lip contact. Tilt your head slightly to one side to avoid bumping noses. Press your lips gently against your date's. Try not to suck his or her breath away just yet.
    Release the kiss and look into your date's eyes. If he isn't looking back at you the same way, then you probably shouldn't continue.  But if your date appears willing, then lean in and kiss your date again. There's more flexibility to this second kiss. Explore - softly kiss your date's neck, ears and eyelashes. By this time, you'll have a better feel for how and where to kiss your date.

i hope this helps you some
Graham


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