AboutDiane W. Expertise I will be out of town for a few days and won't be able to answer questions. If you want to email me, you may do so at DWooley97@yahoo.com and
I will answer on my return.
What are some ideas for my first date? I can help you figure out what to do on your first date and other dates. Please give me your age and what kind of location you live in (suburbs, city, country, etc). I have lots of ideas and will be glad to help.
Experience I have counseled and advised young women for almost 20 years.
Education/Credentials almost 20 years counseling experience.
Expert: Diane W. Date: 6/3/2008 Subject: What to say to the girl I just met!
Question OK! Here's my dealy! I met this girl at the pool in my complex last Fri. Great gal! We have everything in common! Shes young. (no prob. w/ that though) 19 compared to my 26 years. She is currently seeing someone, but "says" she's had enough and wants rid of him. We had a great, long conversation that night and a few drinks w/ friends. Now
I would really like to see this girl again, but I'm not really sure how I should go about it. I don't want to stir things up between her and dude. But I don't want to wait around either. What should I say to her to casually arrange a meet? Should I even bother w/ her if shes seeing someone else still? This girl is the best!! I just need the right words and a little advice! Please help! Thanks!
Joey...
Answer Did you get my answer dated 6/8? Let me know.
Hi Joey,
I found your question in the question pool so I don't really know who you wanted to ask this to. I will try to help you the best I can. Ok, from what I can figure out, you have a way of contacting her in the future. It is kind of a tricky situation as she seems to have a boyfriend. You don't want to cause any trouble there and she needs to make up her mind what she wants. You would have to take the cues from her as to what she wants to do about the situation she is in now. I'm not sure if you should make the first move seeing that she is currently "seeing" someone. This advice is from me, a lady, so you might also want to ask one of the guys your question to see what someone else would say.
So good luck and let us know what happens.