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Hi my name is Emma I am 13 and I have a little problem. The thing is, is that this guy he nice to me and all but I don't know if it is ok for me to ask him out. I am just that type of girl that over thinks every little thing guys say. The catch is we dated about a year ago and I was the one to dump him because of my friends and what they said. One more catch is we don't go to the same school so I won't see him every day. I asked him if he wanted to hang out sometime and he said yes. So I am going to ask him if he wants to go go cart racing with me this week. And I might ask him out there. If you can help me with this I would be vary thankful. Thank you

Hi Emma, Thanks for your question. Sorry, I just got it so sorry for the delay. Has anything more happened in this situation? I'm kind of old-fashioned so I think the guy should ask the girl out. But I also think that 13 is too young to be dating. I can understand hanging out but as far as one-to-one dating, wait until you are older. Let me know what is happening.

Diane W.

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