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In Florida, my mother passed I understand that I am the on being next of kin to sign cremation papers unless unavailable to do so, now I understand that there is a newer will than mine with/ a personal rep in other that is not a Florida resident(I heard that was a law in FL to be a personal rep)neither will has been found to be valid by court at this time...I've tried everything to talk it out and strike a deal with/ no avail..I don't want to lawyer up unless/until they try to sell her property..both will have been entered in court...who gets the ashes legally??  and if there is probate is it duty of court to validate will ??

I am not a lawyer, but I do know that a more recent will takes precedence over an earlier one. Unless you can demonstrate duress or undue pressure of some kind influencing the other will, then the will naming you will not prevail.

Who is named in the new will? What's his/her relationship to your mother? How much time has elapsed between the two wills?

Yes, it is the job of Probate to sort this out. And the ashes and property would go accordingly.


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