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my father died in 2003 and his wife took his cremated remains to iowa and buried them on top of her forrmer husband. i am the only child left and all his grandchildren live in the same area as i do. his wife passed away in 2004. what process do i have to go through to have his ashes moved from iowa to indiana. his was a veteran of world war two.


Cremated remains are generally considered "personal property" but there is no technical ownership of the remains identified by Statute, outside of "next of kin" as determined at the time of disposition. The next-of-kin - absent another legally designated person - may determine the 'final disposition of the remains' - i.e., who receives the cremated remains from the cremation facility. Burial of cremated remains is a choice (whereas burial of a full body is required).

That said, once cremated remains are buried in a cemetery, the person who owns the plot's interment rights is the person now in control of the remains, because outside of a court-order, the only person who can authorize a disinterment (disturbing the ground) is the holder of the rights.

As the oldest surviving child, you may be that rights holder, depending on your State laws. The cemetery should know whether or not you have the right to disinter the remains (the interment rights may have passed to you through de-facto inheritance). If they determine that you don't, they'll be able to tell you who does, and therefore whose permission you'd need to get in order to arrange for the disinterment and removal.

If the cemetery isn't helpful, you can contact the cemetery you want to move him to and see if they have any ideas - cemeteries can be quite resourceful when they're getting a new customer. Be prepared to pay a disinterment fee at the original cemetery along with the new interment charges.

Good luck!


NOTE: I am not a licensed cemetery operator nor an attorney.


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