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Dear expert,
See the obituary below. It is the only anouncement I received of the passing of my American cousin-in-law, who died on Jan. 5. In the Netherlands the maximum delay between passing and burial (or cremation) is 7 days (rare exceptions are permitted). Do such laws exist in PA? I am a bit surprised by a delay of 20 days!
I liked my cousin, so I consider to go to the USA for the memorial service. There is no mention whatsoever of a burial or cremation. Is that also customary in the USA? And does 'visitation' imply that my cousin will not be buried or cremated before Jan 25? What are 'memorials'?
I will be very grateful for your answer & information.
Henk van Leeuwen (Amsterdam, Netherlands)

A memorial service will be held on Saturday, January 25, 2014 at 11 a.m. in the ...... Church of Christ, .............., with the Church pastor, Rev. Mary B. ........ and Rev. James ......, pastor of First Presbyterian Church, ........, officiating. There will be a visitation at the Church from 9:30 to 11 a.m. The family will provide flowers. Memorials may be made to the ............Home Hospice, ..............., PA 1....

Actually, I think it's only 5 days in the Netherlands.

From the obit, the term "memorial service" implies that there is no casket present. Otherwise they would have used the word "funeral." Also, they did not use the word "viewing," using instead "visitation" as a time for the family to chat with friends in a less formal setting.

Only a few states have a set time by when disposition must occur. I think the longest is 10 days. No set time in PA.


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