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QUESTION: My friends have been arguing this for weeks. I am Norwegian. I can trace my family back to Farsund as far back as 750AD... so far. We follow the old religion and are what I guess you would call "pagan."  I want to know what hoopla we'd incur if my funeral (I am old and ill) was proper. Meaning I go to Valhalla sailing out to sea in a burning boat. I am VERY serious about this. I see all kinds of other religious ritual allowed.
If done secretly, what would the ramifications, charges,  be?
Thank you so much.

ANSWER: You would need a medical examiner's permit to cremate. Frankly, given the pollution I find that an unwise choice.

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QUESTION: I don't see why "pollution" would be an issue as long as it was a "green" burial. Washington State has "green cemeteries" where one can just go in the ground as long as there are no chemicals involved (like embalming fluid) and everything else involved (if there is a wooden coffin) is biodegradable. Truly "dust to dust." The only thing would be I would be in water. And consumed by fish rather than worms.
Mammals and fish haves decomposed naturally since they/we evolved.

Like I mentioned, I have seen where the rules are bent for other religious ritual.

If we just "do it," what are the charges?

If you want to be consumed by fish, then you could pick burial at sea without the burning boat.
Even for that your family would need a medical examiner's permit first. I'm not sure what the penalty would be if they went ahead without that permit.I'm surprised you would pick an exit that would put your family in jeopardy of some kind if only a fine perhaps.


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