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About Dr. Jayson D. Nadolny, ThD
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Expertise
Dating is a difficult task for anyone...but when we involve ourselves in the gay scene in dating, there are more obstacles to jump over. It is not easy being gay alone, but when you add in finding that special someone to spend your life with, it gets even more difficult. I can answer questions about dating, how to plan a date and advice for once you've found that special person!

Experience
As an out, gay man I've experienced the various different aspects of the dating scene, from internet dating to clubs and from randomly meeting someone to being introduced through friends. I currently serve as the Director of the Ashtabula GLBT Outreach Foundation in Ashtabula, Ohio and we work with adults and teens alike through support groups as well as helping them cope and learn how to live their life without regret!

Organizations
Ashtabula GLBT Outreach Foundation, Director

Publications
Ashtabula GLBT Outreach Foundation Blog at http://gaybula.wordpress.com

Education/Credentials
** AS Pastoral Counseling ** BS Pastoral Ministries/Christian Education ** MA Christian Education (Also called M.Ced) ** ThD in Theology & Atheist Studies

Awards and Honors
Northeast Ohio GLBT Activist of the Year, 2008

   

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SubjectDate AskedExpert

Long term relationship6/7/2009Dr. Jayson D. Nadolny, ThD
  Q: I am a 47 year old Australian guy in a relationship with a similarly aged Finnish guy. We met in ...
  A: I apologize for the time it has taken me to respond. I was on vacation and apparently, the system ...
Am I a lesbian or something?5/21/2009Dr. Jayson D. Nadolny, ThD
  Q: Well how did you know you were gay or something?
  A: Actually, I knew first when I was very young. I was not attracted to any of the girls, but I had ...
text messages5/18/2009Dr. Jayson D. Nadolny, ThD
  Q: I snooped in my boyfriend's phone and found text messages that suggests that he is cheating on me. ...
  A: Well, first off I can never condone the use of trickery in any relationship. So, I'm afraid that I ...
Sexuality?5/15/2009Dr. Jayson D. Nadolny, ThD
  Q: I'm 13.I'm a girl.I feel that I'm obsessed with breasts.I'm starting to feel attracted to my teacher ...
  A: Yes, I am gay myself. I went through a very long period in my life where I was not comfortable with ...
there's this guy...5/15/2009Dr. Jayson D. Nadolny, ThD
  Q: I'm Paul, I'm 17 and I'm a junior and I'm bi. so recently, I've been hanging with a group of old ...
  A: Well, it sounds to me like you have yourself a crush! There's something amazing about seeing that ...
Sexuality?5/14/2009Dr. Jayson D. Nadolny, ThD
  Q: I'm 13.I'm a girl.I feel that I'm obsessed with breasts.I'm starting to feel attracted to my teacher ...
  A: I'm sorry that it's taken me so long to get back to you Sweetie. I usually try to get back to ...
Am I Obsessed or does she just not want to be with me anymore?5/10/2009Dr. Jayson D. Nadolny, ThD
  Q: I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for a year and a half now and things are touch and ...
  A: I'm sorry that it has taken me so long to respond. We had a minor internet outage here yesterday so ...
Sexuality?5/8/2009Dr. Jayson D. Nadolny, ThD
  Q: I'm 13.I'm a girl.I feel that I'm obsessed with breasts.I'm starting to feel attracted to my teacher ...
  A: I'm sorry that it has taken me so long to get back with you. My internet service had experienced an ...
intercontinental relationship5/3/2009Dr. Jayson D. Nadolny, ThD
  Q: I met a wonderful man in a most unusual way. He was rude and moved my book from the seat next to ...
  A: I apologize if I wasn't able to answer your question to the fullest, as I said I am not very ...
intercontinental relationship5/3/2009Dr. Jayson D. Nadolny, ThD
  Q: I met a wonderful man in a most unusual way. He was rude and moved my book from the seat next to ...
  A: It sounds to me like you have yourself an issue. The biggest, of course, being once he finishes ...
question4/20/2009Dr. Jayson D. Nadolny, ThD
  Q: I'm a (straight) female, I'm 31 years old, and I used to model part time. I have a lot of gay male ...
  A: Wonderful questions! I'd be happy to try to shed a little light on the situation for you. The ...
follow up4/20/2009Dr. Jayson D. Nadolny, ThD
  Q: This is Ana again who wrote you last week (remember I was the straight girl who was watching lesbian ...
  A: Well, it seems to me now that really what it is is that you are simply aroused by beauty! There's ...
reaction4/12/2009Dr. Jayson D. Nadolny, ThD
  Q: I'm a 27 year old straight woman. I am attracted to men emotionally and sexually and physically and ...
  A: The body and psyche are very interesting things. If you don't feel like you would be emotionally or ...
Loneliness12/28/2007Cteavin
  Q: Okay, this is a very pressing issue at hand so I really hope that the advice that you give me is ...
  A: Before I can even begin to answer this question I need some basic info. What nationality are you ...
How do i know if he likes me?11/29/2007Cteavin
  Q: I have liked someone for about a year and just recently i relized i loved him (i'm In Grade 9 Right ...
  A: Sorry it took me so long to get back to you. I didn't see this in my box until just now. m(_ _)m ...
"Hanging out" with a bi boy11/19/2007Cteavin
  Q: My name is Bryce and I am a college freshman just out of High School. I've been quite openly gay ...
  A: First of all, thanks for the question. Was it a date? Yes, it was. Did you blow it? No. He ...
My biggest crush ever.11/16/2007Cteavin
  Q: My name is Erica and I am a highschool sophomore. I am a member of stage crew and fairly recently ...
  A: Erica you only live once and you're at a time in your life where the decisions you make now will ...
Taken advantage of?11/13/2007Cteavin
  Q: I live in San Diego and while in San Francisco in early summer I met a guy. Things started off very ...
  A: No my friend, you are not being played for a fool. When we give someone something and expect a ...
no one can tell9/2/2007Jasmin
  Q: Ok im a 17 yr old gay male. I am not very feminine so when i go out not many people can tell that im ...
  A: Zach, You can't wave a magic wand and expect things to happen so all you can do is come out and ...
General Dating Advice9/1/2007Jasmin
  Q: OK, I guess I start by giving a bit of info about myself and stuff... Well, I am 17, and have been ...
  A: From what I hear all the things you do with your boyfriend are great - a lot of guys would be jelous ...
I think I'm in love with a straight guy8/23/2007Jasmin
  Q: Ok, so I'm a sophomore in college who is still not out and I met this really cool guy during second ...
  A: Okay Chris, Whoever said he definatly isn't gay is wrong - a lot of guys cover up their sexuality ...
General Dating Advice8/21/2007Jasmin
  Q: OK, I guess I start by giving a bit of info about myself and stuff... Well, I am 17, and have been ...
  A: Right James, Next time you see him try letting your hair down - be a bit more adventurous and have ...
How should I tell him?7/30/2007Caroline Brogan
  Q: So it's been a 1 1/2 since I liked this guy, he's 14 still, and we're moving into 10th grade. In ...
  A: My advice would be to wait it out a little bit keep hanging with him. Problem being if ou just come ...
Sexual shyness6/8/2007Cteavin
  Q: I'm in a bit of bother. I've just started dating a 30 year old guy who has had a bit of experience ...
  A: First of wall we need to clarify what kind of shyness we're talking about and what he's asking you ...
Crush on a kid that's way out of my league and just... out6/8/2007Cteavin
  Q: So, I'm going to be a sophomore in college next year and last semester I started crushing on a kid ...
  A: (I'm actually on holiday now, I forgot to set my schedule on All Experts.) Actually, you sound like ...
relationship interferance6/4/2007Cteavin
  Q: Hey, I'm 16 and I have this problem and its about me and my boyfriend. Yet my mom knows nothing ...
  A: In order for me to answer your question in a meaningful way I need to ask for some more information ...
I don't know. I fell for someone...5/31/2007Cteavin
  Q: After reading many of responses, I feel you can bring some closure to my case. I don't know where to ...
  A: I'm going to need a little extra information before I answer. Brian, is he Korean? And what ...
another question?!?!?5/30/2007Cteavin
  Q: things with me and my boyfriend are great and he has definalety warmed up to me. We were lying in ...
  A: I wish there was a magic answer or formula I could give you but there isn't. Did you ever see The ...
How to tell a guy he isn't Mr. Right5/29/2007Cteavin
  Q: I recently met a guy online and went to his house to stay over night. His personality and mine ...
  A: If he isn't getting the body language or the tone of voice or the facial features all of which say, ...
another question?!?!?5/26/2007Cteavin
  Q: things with me and my boyfriend are great and he has definalety warmed up to me. We were lying in ...
  A: I'm sorry, I thought I answered your question but I was mistaken. I need a little clarification ...
Cross-Boyfriend Cheating5/22/2007Cteavin
  Q: (Sorry, I sent the wrong address) (19 year old, male) I'm currently in a bit of a pickel over ...
  A: You're "really close" with your twin BUT you're "pretty sure" he's going to forgive James? I'll ...
Gayness5/17/2007Cteavin
  Q: I am a 40ish year old man and I have been married 3 times and have 6 kids. Recently, as far back as ...
  A: Wow, LOTS of stuff going on in your message. The short answer is go for it. You don't work ...
It's me again5/17/2007Cteavin
  Q: Matt and I have been going out now for about 3 days. I know it seems like it'd only been a few short ...
  A: I was still thinking about your last e-mail. There are LOTS of little things I didn't understand ...
My boyfriend5/16/2007Cteavin
  Q: I just began a relationship with my best friend who recently discovered he had feelings for me. He ...
  A: Okay, I'm guessing that part of what you're talking about is sex. On the topic of sex you need to ...
Buying home together4/23/2007Cteavin
  Q: My partner and I have been sharing a home for 4 months now - I want to buy into that home - how do i ...
  A: I'm not sure I understand the question. Are you asking me for legal advise on how to co-own a home ...
Is this relationship going to work out?4/22/2007Cteavin
  Q: My boyfriend and I (We're gay) he's 22 and im 21, i know what i want and i want a serious ...
  A: Joke: What do lesbians bring on the second date? The moving van. What do gay men bring on the ...
Long Distance Relationship4/19/2007Cteavin
  Q: My boyfriend and I have been in a long distance relationship since Jan 07. He's been down here ...
  A: Are you bloody mad? Confront him and demand to have those profiles deactivated? Confront him about ...
Long Distance Relationship4/19/2007Cteavin
  Q: My boyfriend and I have been in a long distance relationship since Jan 07. He's been down here ...
  A: You said it correctly, you're projecting. You feel you were unfaithful to him so you expect him to ...
weak relationship4/18/2007Cteavin
  Q: I've been with a guy for about 2 months now who i really, really like, and i feel like i like him ...
  A: I want you to think about something. What kind of person do YOU want to date. Really, think about ...
NOT OUT AND DATING4/18/2007Cteavin
  Q: I'm a sophmore in high school and I'm out but I'm not if that makes sense. I've only told about 15 ...
  A: It depends on how strict your parents are. 1) Ask one of the 15 people you told to cover for you ...

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