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| Subject | Date Asked | Expert |
| i lost a friend over this | 1/17/2012 | Cooks |
| Q: So i had this friend who is a female as i am, and she had a HEAVY crush on me and wanted to date ... A: I see why your frustrated with this situation. It does seem as though your friend is not very good ... | ||
| I thought I was gay, but now I have other problems...? | 1/17/2012 | Sandi |
| Q: Okay, well, I'm 18, and I'm a senior in high school. During my sophomore year, I came out to ... A: it could be a lot things with lewis. he could be a virgin, he could respect you and not want to just ... | ||
| I thought I was gay, but now I have other problems...? | 1/17/2012 | Chrissy S |
| Q: Okay, well, I'm 18, and I'm a senior in high school. During my sophomore year, I came out to ... A: Firstly let me say, don't be anxious of any feelings you have towards Lewis. It's totally natural to ... | ||
| I thought I was gay, but now I have other problems...? | 1/17/2012 | Danielle |
| Q: Okay, well, I'm 18, and I'm a senior in high school. During my sophomore year, I came out to ... A: ) All that stuff about guys always wanting sex is a gender stereotype, it's a myth. It hurts women ... | ||
| I thought I was gay, but now I have other problems...? | 1/17/2012 | Cooks |
| Q: Okay, well, I'm 18, and I'm a senior in high school. During my sophomore year, I came out to ... A: It seems like you've had a really tough time and sexuality is definitely a confusing thing at times. ... | ||
| my friend had a huge crush on me | 1/15/2012 | Chrissy S |
| Q: So i had this friend who is a female as i am, and she had a HEAVY crush on me and wanted to date ... A: Hey Sasha, I'm glad to have helped. I totally agree with that you've said. Live your life and do ... | ||
| my friend had a huge crush on me | 1/14/2012 | Chrissy S |
| Q: So i had this friend who is a female as i am, and she had a HEAVY crush on me and wanted to date ... A: I can tell that your friend's behaviour has had a big impact on you. Well it's a safe to say that ... | ||
| a few questions :) | 1/11/2012 | Matt |
| Q: well I'm a 15 year old boy and i've always got turned on by guys and gay porn; I read another answer ... A: Hey Aaron, You need to stay in a relationship with a girl, or have sexual experiences if you think ... | ||
| Not interested. | 1/9/2012 | Cooks |
| Q: I'm not really interested in girls, or boys for that matter. I've kissed a boy, but never done other ... A: I realise this may be a hard time for you as it is for most teenagers. The truth is for many people ... | ||
| Does he like me? | 1/3/2012 | Josh Hawkins |
| Q: For the past couple of years i have been desperately in love with another boy. He doesn't know it, ... A: Hey Liam, it's nice to hear from you again. Good body language is a good way that you can do to ... | ||
| Does he like me? | 12/31/2011 | Josh Hawkins |
| Q: For the past couple of years i have been desperately in love with another boy. He doesn't know it, ... A: it's nice to hear from you. The first thing I would recommend is just being friends with him. You ... | ||
| How to get another girl to like me! | 12/17/2011 | Alex |
| Q: Hey, I'm a bisexual teenage girl but have only ever been out with guys because I've never really ... A: Hey Beth, If you're not sure whether your friend is bisexual or not, it might be an idea to find ... | ||
| Confusion | 12/16/2011 | Alex |
| Q: Ive kissed maybe three girls each of which is my friend and it was a dare, but the thing is I wasnt ... A: Hey Ty, It is okay to be unsure of your sexuality.. after all, there's still plenty of time for you ... | ||
| A Very Prolonged, Unrequited Crush | 12/16/2011 | Alex |
| Q: I was wondering if you could help me out. There's this guy that I've been crushing on for over two ... A: Hey David :) Your situation sounds like it's been a little complex.. sometimes we fall for the ... | ||
| whats happening.. | 12/15/2011 | Sandi |
| Q: hey, can i get your help? well, im quite young (im only fourteen) and ive started noticing girls. ... A: its normal to have some sexual interest in the same sex. i dont know if i would recommend ... | ||
| I think I'm bi | 12/14/2011 | Courtney |
| Q: See here's the thing: I'm 17 now and the beginning of the year j had a crush on this girl on my ... A: Well considering you've only liked two girls, and have only made out with one, I can't really say if ... | ||
| Some help needed please? | 12/8/2011 | Courtney |
| Q: Hey, I'm spencer, I'm 18 and bi. I've known since 7th grade with a girl we can call Bella ( was ... A: Again we write, Hello, She needs to be convinced that most Christians aren't against homosexuals. ... | ||
| Confused? | 12/4/2011 | Sandi |
| Q: can you give me advice on how to really figure out what i exactly am? I've noticed girls allot more ... A: im assuming your young. its ok and normal to have thoughts about the same sex. i usually tell people ... | ||
| Gay Friend | 12/3/2011 | Courtney |
| Q: Hey Courtney, Very recently i was walking with my friend and she suddenly very nervously told me ... A: Sorry for taking so long to respond. She's still your friend, act the same way, her feelings will ... | ||
| Questions For An Essay | 11/26/2011 | Courtney |
| Q: It Would be great and nice of you to answer all 3 questions I really Need Them,Thanks 1.As a ... A: I'm sorry for any inconvenience, but these experts, including myself, are not going to help you with ... | ||
| Just Need Answers For An Essay On Gay Marriage | 11/26/2011 | Josh Hawkins |
| Q: It Would be great and nice of you to answer all 3 questions I really Need Them,Thanks Josh 1.As a ... A: Hey Maria, Although I did major in Psychology and got a very good mark in the program, that ... | ||
| How to tell foster carers am gay? | 11/13/2011 | Cooks |
| Q: Am wondering whats the best way of telling my foster carers am Bi? I know they won't mind but i find ... A: It seems like you really care about your foster carer and thats why you're having a tougher time ... | ||
| Does she like me like that? | 11/9/2011 | Courtney |
| Q: so here's a long story, but in the end I am unsure of what to do and if whether or not there is ... A: I think you two really need to talk about this. There's no easier way of figuring things out than ... | ||
| probably the craziest story you will ever hear | 11/9/2011 | Cooks |
| Q: Ok be prepared to receive probably the craziest story of your life. I will try to be brief and hit ... A: Honestly I think it's time you came clean. While she obviously enjoys talking to you she is ... | ||
| I'm bisexual and in love. | 11/4/2011 | Cooks |
| Q: I found out that I am bisexual last year. I'm 15 year old girl turning 16, and I'm really confused ... A: Honestly it is hard where generations differ and religion comes into play. If you are not in a ... | ||
| im confused :( | 11/4/2011 | Cooks |
| Q: since an early age girls have always caught my attention more than guys. ofcourse being little and ... A: First of all you should be focusing on you, because until you know for certain who you are and what ... | ||
| I'm confused | 10/31/2011 | Courtney |
| Q: since an early age girls have always caught my attention more than guys. ofcourse being little and ... A: I think your cousins would look up to you more if say you are a lesbian, because you had the courage ... | ||
| first time sex, couldn't keep a erection | 10/28/2011 | Cooks |
| Q: i dont understand how i can go through life getting turned on by hardly anything to not being able ... A: Bill, It really does sound like your putting way too much pressure on yourself. I would recommend ... | ||
| first time sex, couldn't keep a erection | 10/27/2011 | Cooks |
| Q: i dont understand how i can go through life getting turned on by hardly anything to not being able ... A: Honestly these things happen and the more you worry about it and freak yourself out about it the ... | ||
| How to overcome? | 10/20/2011 | Josh Hawkins |
| Q: Let me state that I am a girl and I am 20 years old. I am also bisexual and feel like I have no one ... A: it's nice to hear from you. First of all, thank you for sending me your question. It's unfortunate ... | ||
| I can't do this anymore. | 10/19/2011 | Josh Hawkins |
| Q: I am a girl and bisexual and I am friends with this girl who is "religious" now and think ... A: it's nice to hear from you. The bottom line is you need to make sure she stops acting the way she ... | ||
| A confusing time in my life. Follow Up | 10/18/2011 | Josh Hawkins |
| Q: My name is Nidia and I am 16 years old. Times have been pretty difficult for me lately. In the ... A: it's nice to hear from you again. Not a problem, my pleasure. I'm happy that I'm able to help you. ... | ||
| Teen transgendered books | 10/17/2011 | Alex |
| Q: Can you please recommend any teen transgendered novels? Thanks! A: Hey Kristine, There are quite a few transgender novels out there! There is 'Luna' by Julie Ann ... | ||
| nobody has gotten back to me in weeks ! | 10/16/2011 | Josh Hawkins |
| Q: ive asked a few people already, no response ? /: Im bisexual first of all, and a girl. Theres this ... A: it's nice to hear from you again. One way that you can find out if she likes you as a friend or ... | ||
| What should I do? | 10/15/2011 | Cooks |
| Q: I'm a 15 tear old bisexual, pansexual, slightly-to-the-left, whatever you wanna call it Girl. So ... A: You can never be certain of why this friend is behaving this way towards you, but it's really ... | ||
| A confusing time in my life. | 10/15/2011 | Josh Hawkins |
| Q: My name is Nidia and I am 16 years old. Times have been pretty difficult for me lately. In the ... A: it's nice to hear from you. If coming out to your parents will likely be difficult, it's best to do ... | ||
| help ? | 10/13/2011 | Matt |
| Q: hey Matt, so heres the story. I'm 14 and bisexual. Ive had so much trouble trying to find a ... A: Hey Bryannna, Its always hard to decipher flirting over text and email, what you may see as ... | ||
| parents... | 10/12/2011 | Cooks |
| Q: Ok so my parents found out I am dating a guy, and you know they werent bad with it, shocked? yes. ... A: This is a hard one. The best thing to do is to sit your parents down and tell them that their ... | ||
| nobody has gotten back to me in weeks ! | 10/11/2011 | Josh Hawkins |
| Q: ive asked a few people already, no response ? /: Im bisexual first of all, and a girl. Theres this ... A: it's nice to hear from you. I'm sorry to hear that it's taking so long for you to get a reply from ... | ||
| bisexuality | 10/11/2011 | Alex |
| Q: 1. What does the term bicurious mean? 2. How I can take an online test to see if I'm bisexual or ... A: Hey Kristine, The term 'bi-curious' is quite literal really. It's usually used when someone who ... | ||
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