AboutLisa Expertise I can answer questions about Lesbian/Bi relationships, coming out, sexuality, depression, family problems, divorce, and any other teenage thing you could ask about. I don't know if I can always help, but I'll try hard to understand what's going on and give the best advice.
Experience I'm lesbian/bisexual and the majority of my friends are bi. My parents have been divorced, and my mother has had cancer. I struggled with depression myself for a long time, but I'm better now and I want to help people in the same sorts of situations.
Expert: Lisa Date: 5/7/2008 Subject: do i have a chance?
Question there's this real cute grl who im working on a project wit... how do i make a move and let her know im interested??
Answer Hey Michelle,
Well, I can't really answer your question with so little information on this girl. Is she bi or gay? Are you good friends with her? Do you think she might be interested in you? I'm glad you've got the guts to go for it though. If you want to make it clear that you do like her, treat her like you like her. Don't treat her like just another one of your friends. Try giving her a hug when she leaves for the day (if it isn't too awkward) or nod thoughtfully at what she says; always be there to listen. If you want to take the romantic approach, look her strait in the eyes when you talk, and smile and look away when she takes notice of you. If you need to get her attention, touch her lightly on her knee or arm and let your fingers linger a second longer.
If you're looking for a more upfront approach, you could also just go up to her and say "Hey I like you. Do you want to go out to a movie or something?". It takes guts, but sometimes it easier to just get to the point and not beat around the bush.
Getting her at all might be more difficult if she's not into other girls. If you feel she might though, go for it.
I hope I could help a little, and please feel free to write back with more information so I can help further.
