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About Taylor
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I can help anyone and answer almost any questions you have. I also like to think of myself as a friend not just an expert. I can answer qustions concerning why you are gay/lesbian or bisexual. I can help you figure out if a friend of yours is gay/lesbian or bisexual. I can answer questions about coming out to friends or family. I can answer questions involving your sexuality with your religion. I can help you discover your sexuality and help you except yourself for who you are. I can also help with friendship issues or relationship issues. I will be open for questions at all times, Thank you.

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I'm 17 years old and I have known I was bisexual since I was 13 and I had homophobic parents I went through bullying and teasing in school and I lost a few after I told them so I know how to help people through similar situations.
 
   

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Topic: Gay/Lesbian/Bi Teens



Expert: Taylor
Date: 7/20/2008
Subject: Don't know if i am bi or straight or bi-curious

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QUESTION: Hi my is stewart and lately i have been having some bi-sexual thoughts. i am attracted to women but there is some times when i think that i would love to have sex with that guy. i have watched straight and gay porn even bi-sexual porn and liked it. i don't know if i could talk to any of my friends or family as they always make fun of gays. i have kissed a girl and liked it but haven't kissed a guy but part of me would like to try it. im confused i don't know what to think or do.

ANSWER: Hey stewart,
You my just be bi-curious but when you watch gay porn do you get aroused,have boners,jack off anything similar to that?

-Taylor

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QUESTION: Hi taylor to your question yes when i watch gay porn i get hard on's but uts the same when i watch straight porn as well and i do sometimes jack off to gay and straight porn and i also fantasize about being in them and in bi-sexual porn

Answer
Hey Stewart,
nice to hear from you again.  

It is very hard to know if you are bisexual or bicurious but as of now i would say your probably bisexual just because it sounds like you sre attracted to guys in general and just one guy.

For example if you started having sexual feelings towards your best male friend then that would lead me to think your just bicurious and have feelings for him because you and him are close.

But in your case its not a friend or at least its not only a friend your attracted to and the fact that you get hard ons and jack off to gay porn is what makes me lean towards thinking that you are probably bi sexual but on the other hand some guys just get turned on by someone moaning or just by watching someone get fucked no matter if its boy on boy,girl on boy,or girl on girl.

I would say maybe go to a gay bar try it out and see how it goes noone has to know that your going to a gay bar and just meet some guys kiss one of them if you feel comfortable with someone you meet and if it arouses you then i would say your probably bisexual.

Feel free to write a second follow up if you have anymore questions or concerns i'd love too help. Thank you

-Taylor

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