About Lisa Expertise I can answer questions about Lesbian/Bi relationships, coming out, sexuality, depression, family problems, divorce, and any other teenage thing you could ask about. I don't know if I can always help, but I'll try hard to understand what's going on and give the best advice.
Experience I'm lesbian/bisexual and the majority of my friends are bi. My parents have been divorced, and my mother has had cancer. I struggled with depression myself for a long time, but I'm better now and I want to help people in the same sorts of situations.
Question I have always wanted to kiss a girl and eat her out or play with her, but does that mean im a lesbian? Also I like guys alot and feel like I only want to do that stuff with a girl, beacsue I want to try it with someone of my own sex before doing it with a guy. I Dont want to be bi cause im scared please help me. Im 16
Answer Hi Shelly,
A lot of people are confused by their sexual attractions. If you feel like you'd rather be with a girl, then be with a girl. If you fins some guy attractive, then date him. Labeling yourself lesbian, straight or bisexual will not change your attractions. Since you feel like you'd rather be with a girl first and experiment a little, then do. Ask some girl you like out, and let your experiments go from there. Or why not fantisize about being with a girl and then fantasizse being with a guy. If you feel like you'd rather be with one and not the other, then you may lean towards being straight or lesbian. Being bisexual is nothing to be afraid of. Most people feel some degree of attraction to the same and oppostie gender to spite thier sexual orientation.
I hope that I could help, and write back if you need any further advice.
