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Expert: Taylor Date: 7/22/2008 Subject: lesbian sex-the first time
Question i have a girlfriend, and weve kissed and made out and had orgasms together before, but weve never taken off clothes or anything like that. i can tell she wants to though, and ive only been holding back because i dont think i will do it right. neother of us has had sex, lesbian or otherwise. i want it to be wonderful for her at the very least. we googled it together once, but all that came up was porn.. and no-neither of us like porn (is that strange?) do you haave any sugguestions on good first time lesbian sex? ive heard lesbians are more likely to get HIV/AIDS... is this true? sorry... im almost done- is there any set rule on what you do and dont do the first time you have sex (fingering, fisting, oral?) thanks so much for your time!
Answer Hey,
Thank you for your question I hope I can be of some help to you.
First off no its not strange that you and your girlfriend don't like porn some people get really turned on by porn and other people it just doesn't do anything for them. No lesbians are not most likely to get HIV/AIDS gay men are most likely to get HIV/AIDS but that doesn't mean its not possible for lesbians to get HIV/AIDS but it is very difficult for lesbians to get it. No there aren't any rules on what you should and shouldn't do on your first time just do what feels right to you.
If you want to pleasure your girlfriend and your not sure how just sit down with her and just tell her that you want to make her first time as wonderful as you can and just ask her what turns her on what her fantisies are and if she is confused to because it is her first time also then when you decide to try sex try anything you want and I can garunttee you that you will know what she really likes by her moaning and the stronger the moan the more the person likes what your doing. Try not to think about doing it wrong because there really is no way you can make sex wrong just do what feels right to you and her and it'll be perfect.
If you have any other questions or concerns please feel free to write a follow up question I'm here to help. Thanks again
