AboutMatt Expertise I can answer questions on coming out, sexuality confusion and reactions from friends and family - I have been through all of this myself. Feelings, thoughts and does the "he/she like me" stages too. I may be younger than some of the experts but I am talking from 1st hand experience and I know what it is like. Having problems at school or don't know how to tell people? I can help with that too. Don't hestitate to ask me your questions, I am here to help.
Experience I am a bisexual teen who has come out to family and friends. I have been through the stages of "Am I gay or am I bi?", the reactions and opinions of students at school and also had trouble from people because of my sexuality. It is something I feel strongly about and want to help others, like AllExperts helped me.
Education/Credentials I am still in full-time education and have taken my GCSE's. I have got 10 A-C at GCSE and am now at Sixth Form studying for my AS & A Levels in ICT, RE & Psychology.
im a 13 year old boy and dude let me tell you im confused, am i bi or straight.. is it normal for me a 13 year old boy to have these feelings.. i love girls in fact they like the hottest thing on this planet but i recently started having gay feelings and i dunno what to do, i don't wanna be gay but this is the way im feeling... let me give you my life story haha..
i was very young when my cousin introduced me to porn (i was 6 i think) and from then i couldn't stop humping anything until the discovery of masturbation(last year) and this year i started high school
most of my friends are girls and some of them are really hot, i have sexual feelings for a couple of them and people think im gay cause i hang out with girls but tats got nothing to do with my situation i think... now** the problem there are 2 guys in my school tat i tink are hot... 1 is in grade nine and the other in my class and i sometimes have sexual fantasy's about them and i like to look at beach dudes ( blonde year, muscles) and emos boys(black hair, piercing's) kissing touching ect. and i love chicks in my school with blonde hair/ black hair nice figures perfect butts and well you know so wat do you tink am i bi straight or is this just a phase im going through in my teenage puberty years
Answer Hey,
I know this is maybe not what you want to hear, but as you are 13 there is still a chance that this could just be a stage where you start to experiment and learn more about people sexually and develop feelings and confuse your feelings for the genders etc. You could be bisexual, but you haven't said how long you have had feelings for guys, but from what you said it doesn't seem to have been for very long, hence why I say it could be classed as a stage.
I would see how you feel in the future, if you have continued feelings for both guys and girls then you would class yourself as bi yes, but at 13 you don't need to give into societies pressures and label yourself just yet mate.
