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Question Hi sandy
I have never done this before and so I am just going to say it
I don't know if am lesbian, bi-sexual or not, I am only 14 teen, but I am not to sure. I always thought a little about it but never really understood it, until I was sleeping over at a friends house and we played truth or dare and I choose dare and she say that I had to fell her up and I didn't know what I was doing so she showed me and that was fine. Then the next few times I slept over we did the same thing. And then it stoped and I don't know why. And I didn't think much of it.
until a friend of mine came out and I had always known that she was but when she came out I started to get a crush on her and I am in year 8 and she is in year 12 and I didn't want to do anything because if I did and nothing happened I every one would think.
I had a friend over one night because we hadn't seen each other in 3 months and we were laying on her fold out couch and she wanted me to give her a massage so I said yes and said that she could sit in front of me but instead she sat in my lap and that like her but when I was giving her the massage the whole time I wanted to kiss her and I didn't and in some was I regret it but I wouldn't want to break a good friendship.
Really sorry I am going on but there is more.
I was at a friend of mines party (letisha her name) and this was the biggest party of the year and, I went because her cousin and I are rely close. And letisha and were dancing when she said that the guy she liked was looking at us.
This girl is one of those girls that will do anything just for fun and doesn't care how gets hurt
So yeah when we were dancing she huge me and that wasn't a big thing until she kissed me. In front of 300 people and I didn't know what to do so I ran to the toilet. (This was in the holidays)
When I got back to school some of my friends that were at the party were asking me was I lesbian and I had to say not because I wasn't to shore.
I don’t know if this is just a fling or if this is something real, and if it is real what kind of real. And if this is what I am how do I come out to my friends and family especily the people how I have done things with.
Answer your young and i wouldnt worry about whether or not your lesbian or bi. have you dated guys or had sex? i think its really hard to know for sure what you are until you can have some sexual experiences. im not telling you to go out and have sex with guys and girls but just dont "label" yourself right now. go out with guys and girls somemore. full around, have sex if you want (just be very safe and careful). find out what you like and do not like. you have many years ahead of you to figure this out, dont rush it. also, it is normal for girls and guys your age to have sexual thoughts about the same sex. it doesnt always mean you are bi or gay.
