Expert: Sandi - 10/13/2009

Question
Dear Expert,
I was wondering if you could help me with something, you see im a bisexal teen and i cant tell if i like my best friend or not, we have done a few things before but not much that would make us more than friends. I have had feelings for her before, many many times, but after a while i alwasy thought i had got over her but this keeps happening. At the moment i feel i really like her. We are really close and we tell each other everything. Im in a happy relationship with my boyfriend but i think of her alot more than him. She on the other hand is in an unstable relationship so i try to comfort her as much as possible but i am finding it really hard. I have told her how i feel as i have done each time because otherwise i find it hard to even be near her, we quite often fall out about it but we are ok at the moment. I just dont know if she is what i really want, but if she isnt..what is?? :(

Answer
have you been in a relationship with a girl before? if not then my suggestion would be to try it out and see how it goes. in order to really know if your bi or not you really need to feel the entire experience of being in a relationship with her. im not just talking sex or just being in love with someone; it has to be the whole thing.

sandi