Expert: Sandi - 6/16/2009

Question
I've been bisexual since I was very young, since second grade. I have always liked girls since I could remember and it was nothing weird to me till I got to middle school and found out that it wasn't quite as normal to like girls if you were a girl. I struggled for a very long time to figure out if I was bisexual and in 7th grade I came to terms with it. I know it's not something to be ashamed about.

I'm currently a Junior in highschool and I've been thinking more and more every day. I am attracted to men, but I know I will never do anything past making out with them. Ever. I will NOT have sex with them, ever. I find it to be uncomfortable with them as well. But with girls, I'm at ease and I can do anything..

Am I a lesbian?

Answer
sounds like maybe you are. do you think you could eventually settle down with a women and get married (if thats an option where your at)? is the answer is yes then i would say you are probably lesbian. if its just a sexual thing with women then maybe your bi.

sandi