AboutDanielle Expertise I can answer questions about coming out to friends, family, others in your life (students at school, other relatives), homophobic people around you, anything to do with one's sexuality, including all the many sexual orientations. I may not be able to give a perfect answer every time, but I'll definitely try my hardest to help.
Experience I have many friends who are gay or bisexual; I am myself, as well as a closeted family member.
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Education/Credentials I'm still in high school, but I don't think that limits how much I can help someone.
Question QUESTION: I'm 17 and im a boy very sexualy attracted to my dad everytyme he look's at me i just feel blood rushing to my veins...the the next day i think it's gross. This feeling keep's comeing back like every month what should i do. i dont no if im gay because i do get aroussed by looking at men more than weoman please hepl thank you.
ANSWER: Hi Timm :)
If you get aroused by both sexes-that could mean bisexual. For a lot of people, feelings towards one sex are stronger, but that doesn't mean they're gay/lesbian. Of course labels are AWFUL, but most people prefer identifying as something. What is it about your dad that arouses you? Is it HIM, or does he remind you of men in general?
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QUESTION: It's Him he's only 39 but i cant stop thinking about him. Apart of me know's this is wrong and for some reason im attracted to older men. just really confusied?
Answer Being attached to older men-that's fine. And with your dad-if it's HIM specifically, ask yourself what it is that attracts you and why. Just the "older male" vibe, or are there reasons (i.e. looks, smarts, etc.) It is confusing, but breaking ti down step by step will make it easier.
