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Question Well i have a girlfriend and we have been together for 10mths. I love her very much! But i havent been able to see her since right now she is in Texas and im in Nevada. She constantly txt me and calls me just to see if im with anyone. And is alwayz accuseing me of cheating. I asked my best friend what should i do and she said that maybe my girl is just saying those things cause she is self consious. My question is Could that be true? Does she do that because she is the one cheating on me?
Answer Hey Sammie!
Well, when you have a long distance relationship theres always some uncertainity. I would say that she isnt cheating on you, but it doesnt sound like shes is self conscious and has trust issues.
I remember when I dated guys online (long distance) there was no telling what they are doing. But, then again you guys have been together for 10 months.
So, NO she isnt cheating on you.
And, YES, she is self conscious and insecure: which though is totally normal in a long distance relationship.