About Teddy Kesting-Handly Expertise I can answer just about anything. Need help coming out? Issues relating to GLBTQ? If your an ally, how to support? Or if you just need general advice about anything GLBTQ related. Please, no "how to have better sex" questions. I have limited my questions to one a day because I want to try and focus on individual questions, I give best advice when I'm not in a rush. Thank you for understanding. Also, if you do not get an answer within the first day, I am probably still working on your answer. If it is a detailed question, expect a reply within 2-3 days. Also, I'll help answer questions regarding with HIV/AIDS.
-IF YOU SEND ME A "HOW TO HAVE BETTER SEX" OR ANYTHING REGARDING HAVING SEX/WATCHING PORNOGRAPHY, YOU WILL NOT GET AN ANSWER!-
Experience I am a kind person who has had many issues and developed ways to figure out how to cope. I want to help others and answer questions for people that may have the same problems. I personally fit into the broad umbrella of GLBTQ.
Education/Credentials Psychology classes
Set-up a GSA
Question Not too long ago, I kissed my best friend for the first time. I didn't
understand it at first but I later realized I really liked it. So, the next time she
and I kissed more, but not enough for me to consider it making out. After
that I believed we had kissed one more time before we stopped, I knew it was
"wrong" and she did too. I didn't want anyone to know, but my best friend
had apparently told her cousin that she and I had kissed. In a game of truth
or dare her cousin asked me if I had ever kissed a girl and I said no and made
a face saying eww because i was afraid of someone finding out. I felt strange
denying it though. After a couple of weeks I thought to myself why do I
always wonder what it's like to make-out with another girl and look at other
girls sometimes wondering what it would be like to touch them. I am nervous
about telling my mom or doctor about it, because I worried that they will take
it the wrong way. Am I bisexual? Oh, yes by the way I love guys so I'm
definitley not lesbian. If I am bisexual though can you please tell me what I
should do? Should I tell my mom or not?
Answer Stephanie,
I think you may be bi-curious. You may want to experiment with girls but not necessarily be in a relationship with them. I wouldn't tell your mom anything unless you feel comfortable. Bisexuality is simply being physically and emotionally attracted to both sexes. I'd try experimenting with a girl, sometimes that will actually help you figure things out. If you don't feel comfortable, then you're probably not bisexual.
