AboutSandi Expertise I can answer all your bi-teen sex questions. I can also give advice on chat rooms or internet relationships. I`m only a teen myself but I have been through a lot with both boys and girls.
Experience A Bi-Teen myself I can give you great advice on dealing with relationships and online dating.
Question QUESTION: My girlfriend just came out to me that she has lesbian feelings for one of our close friends. I'm in shock and confused. She's asking what or how should she tell the friend and her(my girlfriend) mother. What should I do concerning the situation and our relationship?
ANSWER: what would you do if she came to you and said she wanted to date other people? in my opinion its the same thing. if she is saying that she has feelings towards someone else then i think you need to break up with her and let her figure out what she wants. sorry about that... please let me know if you want to talk more
sandi
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QUESTION: My feelings towards her are so strong that I don't want to leave her. We want to work things out. She says she loves me and wants to see if things develop with our friend. She would tell and possibly include me. I'm straight, but see this as a opportunity to bring us closer together, and develop/enhance our relationship. She came to me for advice of how to tell the friend and her mother. Am i wrong for wanting to stay with her and work through this situation? If we split up, should i still be there and support them as a friend?
Answer i dont think your wrong if you want to split with her. threesomes can be fun and all but there is that jeoulousy thing that always creeps in. im not sure you would be "ok" with watching your gf have sex with another girl. and im not sure your gf would be ok watching you have sex with another girl. hang out for a bit and see what happens if you want but just be prepared for some feelings that you might not have expected
