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Experience I, myself, am a gay teenager who is openly "out of the closet" and have been since I was fourteen years old. I started the Gay-Straight Alliance at my school in 2007 and have served as the Vice President, and currently serving as the Secretary.
Question Well i am a 15 year old male and i'm really confused about my sexuality. I fancy both guys and girls but 90% of the time i masturbate over guys becuase I find it easier to cum. I'd say I get more turned on by guys but can really see when a girl is attractive. I would love to have sex with both a girl and a guy and would most like to with a girl rather than have gay sex. I always masturbate over lads in my class at school and whenever i look at them i just think they are "fit" But i dont't see myself in a relationship with a guy, I just find them attractive and want to be with a girl. I have never felt deep feeling for a guy but i always feel like that for girls (like sweaty palms and just feeling that i love her so much. When i watch porn i mostly watch lesbians and normal straight porn but I can jerk off really quickly just by looking at a sexy guy shirtless. I have never seen another lad sof my age naked before and i would love to see someone in my school stripped down. I sometimes have fantasies about having sex with guys and cum eating etc...
I am really confused about myself and need some help with my feelings and who i am. can you please help me discover if i'm bi or straight or whatver. you help would be really appreciated.
Also i would love to masturbate with my friend and i'm wondering how i would ask them about it
thanks in advance
Answer Hey Leo!
You, much like guys your age are going through crazy hormones!
I would say you are bisexual, but your case is like many.
You could only have a relationship with a girl, but fancy the thought of other guys. A big thing I stress if you really are what you want to be. You dont need a label. Just be "Leo-sexual". I do recommend experimenting with both lads and girls. You may be surprised of what you find. When it comes to masturbating with your friend, I suggest watch porn together. THis is a scenario in which you must make the first move.
You already have discovered yourself, my friend.
Now just roll with it! Do what you want! Be safe about it!
You dont need to tell anyone about it, just know that your "Leo-Sexual"! :)
If you have any further questions, let me know!
Best of Luck!
