About Brandon Young Expertise Wondering if your gay? Have a sex question? Is he gay? How do I tell my parents? Why do I feel this way? How do I start a GSA at my school? Whats the best way to come out of the closet? I can answer all questions based on the gay/lesbian/bi/questioning community! Let me know how I can help you!
Experience I, myself, am a gay teenager who is openly "out of the closet" and have been since I was fourteen years old. I started the Gay-Straight Alliance at my school in 2007 and have served as the Vice President, and currently serving as the Secretary.
Question I was looking at some gay porn one day beacause i wuz curious. i always thought i was straight but now i dont know. eversince then i have used gay masturbation tips and liked them had gay sex dreams and wished they were real. plus i think im in love with this girl at the same time. pleez help
Answer Hey Michael!
In my opinion your just a horny teenager. At the level of your hormones its completly normal to have these urges and desires. In the same sense, I personally believe everyone is a little bisexual. It sounds with you like you could have a sexual experience with a male, but would much rather prefer a relationship with a female. This is your time to experiment and see what works for you. Remember, your still developing and these urges may go away. If not, know its okay to embrace the other side, but like I said, you sound more apt to be with a woman when it comes to a relationship.
So I would say YES and NO to you being "bisexual". Your just a teenager going through crazy hormones. If you dont want to be bisexual, dont act on your thoughts. Especially if your in love with a girl, no cheating! Guy or girl. I personally am the opposite as you. I could only have a relationship with a man, but I could still have sexual things with a female. The actions are in your hands, but you must decide how to live out with thoughts.
Good Luck!
Let me know if you have any further questions!
-Brandon :)
