Expert: Brandon Young - 6/27/2009

Question
QUESTION: About the guy i said i like. well he is straight and that may ruin my chances. maybe he is still in the closet like me though. is there any way that i could tell if this is true.  about my dad. he is acctually my step dad. i trust him moor than my real dad though. my real dad would have disowned me. the way my bro found out was becuz he saw the gay porno i wuz on. (he looked up history) could any of this possibly change ur answer

ANSWER: Morning Michael,
Straight guys are hard to work around. Ive been made fun by straight guys while Ive also made out with a straight guy, funny huh?

I would maybe be like, "what do you think about gay people". See what his reaction is. If he freaks out, then hes most likely straight. If he is accepting, theirs a possibility hes gay or bi.

Well what has your step dad done? You said he hated you? WOuld he tell your mother?

---------- FOLLOW-UP ----------

QUESTION: My step dad said he would not let me come over 2 his place any more. u c hes like my real father. is der any way to let him maybe loosen up to the idea?

oh is there any way 4 me to drop hints that im bi to my gparents and my aunt/uncle (i dont how they feel. how can i find out)

oh by the way he will prob tell my mom cuz she may be wonderin why i cant go to his house

Answer
Hey Bud!
First, you really need to tell your mom! It will look alot better if you tell her. And then she can help you with the gparents and other family. I just know shell be accepting of it! :)

My advice: switch efforts of making you stepdad loosen up, to telling your mom.

Hope this helps!
Let me know if you have more questions.
Im always around to answer :)

-Brandon :)