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Experience I, myself, am a gay teenager who is openly "out of the closet" and have been since I was fourteen years old. I started the Gay-Straight Alliance at my school in 2007 and have served as the Vice President, and currently serving as the Secretary.
Question Hi Im Edward and I'm Gay
and Im inlove with my
sister's boyfriend's
Brother.
It all started when I was in 4th grade.
By that time I was chubby.
And My sister met this guy called James
eventually the dated, and in my school
there was this boy who was in 6th grade
I never noticed him, I would look at him
and no clue so...
My dad was going to pick my sister up
from her boyfriend's house. So we
went and never found the house so...
I saw one house who a girl giggled
the same as my sister so I
opened the door (without asking or knocking)
and I saw the boy from 6th grade And
his family sitting next to him.
I made a complete fool of myself
and said sorry but
his little sister asked who we were looking for
and I said James and turned out that, that was his house
and as the day passed on we grew closer
we became friends from different cliques
with his friends around he would
play tough like hit me sometimes and I would hit back
and he would chase me whenever he saw me.
But outside of school he would do the same sometimes
and eventually we would talk and it would last.
then I fell for him... It was so deep.
Next Year ( I need to skip)
Until one family party came on in my father's family
so we went and they brought James (Sister's Boyfriend.)
and his brother (my crush Bryan, eventually call him
Piro.) and sisters. We both got bored and well
he asked me for a walk. We circled 3 times the whole terrain
talking and one time he lifted his shirt and left it off
I said "You know if your walking with me like that,
people would get the wrong idea." And he approached me
for a hug. As I giggled he didn't get to hug me because
my middle sister and Piro's sister caught us
they didnt suspect nothing.
So we walked back to the party.
We both got bored again sometimes he would sit next to me.
And sometimes stare and I always caught him.
Since that I didn't see him until the next semester I
lost some weight and I looked skinnier but not that skinny.
He would hit me as usual and still... we talked like
we known each other forever.
I started to wonder if he was gay too.
I mean when he would wrestle with me
sometimes he always hit me softly then when it
came to neck grab he always got closer and closer
our hips would become one.
And when I'm ignoring him he looks at me.
The next year...
James (sister's bo) went to Africa doing army stuff.
And his mother died of the operation they were doing to her.
We were all sad but Piro seemed the most affected.
I was in the park and I was alone.
So I did a test I faked a phone call
and see if he would talk to me.
He stared most of the time.
And I caught him sometimes.
I wondered if he loved me back.
And sometimes when I go to sleep
I always thought he was holding me while
I tried to sleep, even pretend kissing.
We went to the beach me and my family and friends.
Then James family came but he didn't come.
I saw Piro and his sisters walking while his aunt would sit down. I followed them and I would pretend to look to the fish's while he didn't look and I thought
that he hated me or something by his look.
But then I went to swim and he would say
"What's up edward."
With his hat on and I took his hat off and said.
"You rang?" And then leave his hat on his face.
We didn't talk but I would listen to my Ipod and walk on the beach and he would stare sometimes.
The day went on and I got his hotmail and until now we
always chat about stupid stuff.
I wonder If He like's me but I'm afraid that
If he loves me and we would become a couple
my family and his family would freak so
Help Me?
Thank You
Answer Edward, Buddy, you're rushing into territory in which you really have no information of. Stares very rarely mean you like or even love someone. Before you jump to any conclusions you need to just continue your friendship, maybe it will come out. Perhaps he will make a noticeable approach, but in this case I wouldn't hold my breath. Love is hard thing to deal with, and I think you say a little to much when you say you're "in love" with him. You may like him alot and lust about it, but it takes a deeper connection to feel love like that. You'll know when you find it. With your friend, just let it ride. Be happy your friends, but don't get so caught up with it, because theres always that chance that he isnt gay.
Good Luck!
Let me know if you have any other questions!
Brandon :)
