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About Sandi
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I can answer all your bi-teen sex questions. I can also give advice on chat rooms or internet relationships. I`m only a teen myself but I have been through a lot with both boys and girls.

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Gay/Lesbian/Bi Teens - I think im Bi-Curious


Expert: Sandi - 6/20/2009

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Ok, so I've been thinking ablot lately, and I came to the conclusions that i I might be bi-curious. Don't get me wrong, I love guys and I've been in long term relationships with guys and never with girls, but lately there has been my close friend and something about her sexually attracts me. She's so pretty, smart, and a great friend. Im shy to tell her I kinnda have a crush on her because I don't want it to reuin our friendship, but something inside me says that she is also bi-curious. I would love 2 experience new things with her, and it would b both our first times, but i just don't know how to bring it up, like there are times wen I just wanna kiss her. There are times when I catch her close 2 me, and she looks straight at my lips, as if she was going to kiss me to, but then turns away or just doesn't do it.

How can I find out if she's willing to try it with me? Is there anyway that I can figure out if she might like me the way I think I like her? Is it bad to have sexual fantasies with her?

I hope u can help me,

Thank u!

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its not bad and ok to have sexual thoughts about the same sex. when your young is a good time to experiment with these feelings. can you ask her if she has ever thouhgt about a girl in a sexual way? you dont have to admit you have sexual thoughts about her but at least you can open up the conversation about it with her. start by just saying that and see how she reacts. if she asks you i would say yes sometimes you do. please write me back and let me know how it goes!

sandi


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