Expert: Matt - 6/15/2009

Question
Im a current student in high school, am 17 and gay. this year during my junior year i met a freshmen and let me jsut say he is a total hottie and im falling for him the more i get to know him. i got to see him every day during the school week during 7th period. he is everything i like about a man. and he plays baseball which is a huge plus. so i started to talk to him and we hit it off pretty good and became friends. then i he gave me him cell number so we could text, and i started to do so. this is the hard part. he hardly ever text and he doesnt ever get online bc he hates it. when one day when i was texting him i started to ask abounch of questions and then he would ask some back. well he was attractive enough me thinking he was straight but when texting i found out that he is bi-curious and i said to him that if he ever wanted to try stuff with me i would and he said he would do stuff with me. well its summer now and he doesnt get online and he keeps getting his phone taken away lol. so i guess my question is how do i get him to actually do stuff with me? and why am im so obsessed with him. he is all i think about, i see his face in my head all the time. i thought i could get him drunk bc what person doesnt want to do stuff when drunk..but its not right... pls hlp me.....    thx   :)

Answer
Hey Chris,

You really need to try and see the guy out of the school/college situation. Try and arrange to meet up at a weekend or evening or something. This is when he will be more likely to say something if he still wishes to do something with you.

Alternatively, he could not want to do anything anymore or he could be wanting it to "go away" in the hope that he isn't bi/gay through denial or he is in fact straight.

Good luck,
Matt :)