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Experience I, myself, am a gay teenager who is openly "out of the closet" and have been since I was fourteen years old. I started the Gay-Straight Alliance at my school in 2007 and have served as the Vice President, and currently serving as the Secretary.
Question Hey
I have a few questions
First off.. I think I'm bi... But I'm not sure. How do you tell for sure?
Second off.. I don't know who to talk to about it. I go to a catholic school and
most there would think I'm a sinner or something... And my family doesn't
look very supportive. They might need a while to adjust but my parents and I
don't get along much anyways so I'm afriad of what could happen.
Thirdly.. How do you tell somebody? Is there a trick to it?
Fourth... How should I tell my boyfriend?
Fifth... How do I know if a girl I like is lesbian and would like me back?
I'm just so lost and confused
Help
Answer Hey Mads!
1. Experiment! You only know what you like unless you try it. You cant say you love or hate snails till you try them right? :)
2. Make some online friends? You can go chat rooms and websites that are accepting and make some friends there. Wait a whiles to tell your parents and others. And if you are bi, that means you might end up with the opposite sex, so my recommendation, dont tell your rents or others at school until your with the same sex and certain :)
3. When you decide to tell somebody, you will know. When your completly ready start by telling someone wwho you know will be most supportive. The first person I told was a family friend, and she even helped me tell my family. :)!
4. Talk to him about what he would think of a bisexual person. And again, watch number 2. Dont tell him till your ready and sure you want to.
5. Always let someone else make the first move if your not sure if they are a lesbian.
Hope this has helped somewhat.
Let me know if you have anyother questions :)
