AboutMatt Expertise I can answer questions on coming out, sexuality confusion and reactions from friends and family - I have been through all of this myself. Feelings, thoughts and does the "he/she like me" stages too. I may be younger than some of the experts but I am talking from 1st hand experience and I know what it is like. Having problems at school or don't know how to tell people? I can help with that too. Don't hestitate to ask me your questions, I am here to help.
Experience I am a bisexual teen who has come out to family and friends. I have been through the stages of "Am I gay or am I bi?", the reactions and opinions of students at school and also had trouble from people because of my sexuality. It is something I feel strongly about and want to help others, like AllExperts helped me.
Education/Credentials I am still in full-time education and have taken my GCSE's. I have got 10 A-C at GCSE and am now at Sixth Form studying for my AS & A Levels in ICT, RE & Psychology.
Question Hi. I am 17 and I think i may be bisexual or bi curious.
About a year and a half ago, i thought i were in love with my best friend who
is also a girl, when i told her, she were fine with it. However, when i told her it
were actually friendship, she got a little wierd.
I accidently brought it up and she got mad at me and didn't talk to me for
months.
I started college and made quiet a few friends. I am now really close friends
with two of them, both girls. I thought i liked them both, then i realised that
with one, it is just friendship, with the other, i think i actually do like her. I
have told her this and she is totally cool with it and told me to take my time to
think and to not rush into anything. After i told her, I got very concerned that
she would do what the person who were thought to be my best friend did, but
she hasn't. I sometimes have fantasy's about the two of us kissing but i don't
think that i would be able to touch/feel/ have sex with her. Although, i think
that i really like her. Please could you help me, I am soo confused.
Thankyou,
Rachael
Answer Hi Rachael,
Firstly, you should try and stop falling for very close female friends as it can make things very uncomfortable between you and your friends.
If this person is just a friend, especially a close one, then having sexual fantasies about them is not really a good idea unless you know you have some kinda chance with them as it will only make you want them even more, even though it is hard to control your fantasies I know.
You didn't really seem to ask a specific question so I just commented on what you said, if you want to ask anything else then don't hesitate to ask a follow up question.
