Expert: Robbie Francis - 7/30/2009

Question
Right, so I've told couple friends,9 in fact.
But the real question is how do I tell my parents and others in my
school, I'm 14 and live in Burnley, Lancashire which is in England
and so far it's ruining my life.
I know my other friends may take it well but i'm not sure,
and telling my parents would be the last thing on my list.
It would be alright if i wasn't a bit 'Overweight' but I already get bullied alot in school for no apparent reason.
it's quite upsetting actually.
But i have to stay strong..
people just walk around my school thinking they own the place, honestly, I wish a car would run them over.
lol
xD
so,
back to the question,
my REAL question is how do I tell my parents,
and other people at school,
because if i tell someone at school,
they might tell other people that I didn't want to tell. Any helpful tips or advice?   please.....  :(
Tom.

Answer
The biggest mistake any gay/les/bi teen makes is thinking they HAVE to tell their parents and their friends. I say, your business is your own. As for how, that also has to deal with how your parents and friends are, their relationship with you, etc. I can't really answer this question, Tom. It's something you have to decide. But I will give you the advice that you do not have to tell them yet. In fact, I suggest waiting until you are about 17 or 17. Things may be easier for you then. Best of luck, buddy.