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Hello, I am 14 and I am really struggling with my thoughts and attraction to both guys and girls. My family wouldnt except me if I were with another girl. And I feel like a part of me wants to just shut those feelingsout because family is everything to me. I have always been raised that love is between a man and women and the guilt of being turned on by the thoughts of sexual things to both sexes is really hard for me. I like one thing and I was raised by another. I cant even pleasure myself because I feel so confused! Is this normal? I no that everyone or most people say that it takes time to figure these things put .but im.not a pacient person. But, because im young I dont wanna rush into anythimg either.

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Hello Abbey,
Well it matters what you want, not what you were raised with. Only you can determine your way of life, if you choose to love a woman, you shouldn't have to feel guilty about that because of how you were raised, or because of people around you.
I'm sorry, but I don't see the question. What exactly do you want help with?  

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