Expert: Danielle - 5/16/2007

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QUESTION: Ok,I'm a 19 year old female and along time ago I felt something towards a women
but I was drink. The other night I was drink and i felt some thing towards a
women it was like an emotional feeling and I knew that the feeling was going to be gone once I'm soble casue it happend to me before but this time it was worst like stronger and more like a crush then the first time .

this is confusion,why did I have those false feelings  towards the same sex when drunk?
I wasnt overly drink either time i think I was just buzed or litte bit
past the beging of a  buzz.The frist time this happend I might of had 3 drinks
of vaka and cola which all together equalled 9 shots of vaka.the a last time it
happend  I had 4 or 5 smurn off(vaka mixed drink i think)it comes in a bottle
any way I might of felt the affact of drinking  not only in my head but may be
also in my arms the fisrt time and may be the last time butbut I don't really rememeber,don't take me the wrong way I
remember every thing but that."

OOk,I'm a 19 year old female and along time ago I felt something towards a women
but I was drink. The other night I was drink and i felt some thing towards a
women it was like a crush I guess But I dont know anyway I knew that the feeling
would be gone after I'm soble again and I was wright the feel was gone. I find
this confusion,why am I having false feelins towards towards the same sex when
drink I wasnt overly drink either time i think I was just buzed or litte bit
past the beging of a  buzz.The frist time this happend I might of had 3 drinks
of vaka and cola which all together equalled 9 shots of vaka.the a last time it
happend  I had 4 or 5 smurn off(vaka mixed drink i think)it comes in a bottle
any way I might of felt the affact of drinking  not only in my head but may be
also in my arms but I don't really rememeber,don't take me the wrong way I
remember every thing but that."

P.s the last women i felt some thing emotionally towards wasnt the same women as the first time it happend.
P.s 2 ur not the only one I ask this to and  your not going to be the a last cause I would like to get lots of opinions (answers)for this.


ANSWER: Hello :)

So maybe the feelings are a result of a heightened emotional state, due to the drinking.

Or, there's a really small chance the feelings toward the same sex are repressed, and therefore by drinking, the feelings are free to surface.

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QUESTION: if a girl likes french kissing girls when soble is she straight? what if  a girl french kisses girls when she drunk wont do it when soble is she straight?I'm not talking about a girl doing this once I'm talking about a girl doing this when ever shes drunk or some times when shes drunk but never when soble. These questions are not about me.

Answer
Yea, if she wants to consider herself straight, she can. People do things when drunk, so I guess being under the influence may be why she'd do it. But no one but her can define her sexuality, so whatever she chooses to identify as is her personal choice.