Expert: Jessica - 4/15/2007

Question
QUESTION: hey.
i'm a 14 year old chick, and i'm bi.
i have 2 problems.
1. i'm really searching for someone. guy or girl. but mainly girl right now. but i don't know where to find other bi girls my age and who live in my area. i don't know anyone else bi. and i would love to meet someone or talk to someone online. just a relationship for fun. friends with benefits kind of. i really wanna find someone. can you help me with that?
2. i don't remember the second one...but i'll ask it as soon as it comes back to me.


since you're a teen too. and i think my age, maybe you can help me or help me find someone or someplace where i CAN find someone?

thanks so much for your help.
ANSWER: Hello Dani,

Thank you for your question.

I am sure that there are lesbians or bisexuals in your school. So, do you know of any whom you can hook up with? Is there a gay/lesbian/bisexual community around your area?

As for meeting people online, you can look for chat rooms. Google it. There are plenty. A site where you need not be 18 below to chat is www.icq.com. There is a room specially for gays and lesbians.

But you have to be very careful when chatting online. Don't give out your personal information.

I hope that I've helped you. Please feel free to write back anytime.

All the best,

Jessica

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QUESTION: yeah...
well, i go to a private school.
i'm going to public in the new school year but i really want something now.
and no, there are no communities like that in my area.
and plus, my parents don't know, and i would like to keep it that way.

any other suggestions?
i just really wanna meet someone.

thanks.
-dani

Answer
Hello Dani,

Nice to hear from you again.

There are many ways where you can meet other girls. But you are limited as you aren't 18 years old yet. Thus you cannot go to clubs/bars. Even going to chat rooms and searching for someone around your area from the net, you can't do that. Because you are yet to reach the legal age.

But there is a site where you can chat with lesbians. www.icq.com. For that, you need not be 18 and above.

As said, you can look for lesbians/bisexuals around you. Just try to hook up with someone at school.

I wish you luck on this. Write back anytime.

All the best,

Jessica